Is there ever a good enough reason for that?
2007-03-25 18:36:53 · 13 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-03-25 18:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by RiverGirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parenting is, at the very least, an 18 year commitment. It is very wrong to kick your child out of your home without providing them with an acceptable alternative, such as a relative or boarding school. Now, that being said, I'm going to tell you about my daughter and why she doesn't live with me right now, and I'm not going to visit her where she is. My daughter is 16. She's been in therapy since she was four. I also have three other children, 17, 13, and 6, all boys. My daughter has never accepted discipline, or redirection, or any kind of parental control. She fights against it with everything she's got. Her doctor's say she has oppositional/defiant disorder, bipolar disorder, a depressive disorder, etc. It's a different diagnosis for every doctor. The only thing they all agree on is that something is wrong. She's been on all different kinds of meds. Some didn't help at all, others we never found out if they were going to work, because she od'd on them before they had a chance to work. In the last 7 years she's been hospitalized on mental health holds about 20 times. She runs away frequently, and puts herself in dangerous positions. She is promiscuous. She does drugs and smokes cigarettes. She has everything she needs to change, and doesn't do it. She's been in jail twice, and we tried the tough love approach, putting her in foster homes, from which she abruptly ran. Her brothers see all of this, and are hurt by it, but she doesn't care. Her behavior disrupts family events from weddings to funerals to proms, and costs me thousands of dollars to fix.She refuses to change. She is hopelessly incorrigible. Sound like a good enough reason to you?
2007-03-25 18:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter what I do not think I would ever kick my child out no matter the age, however I would make them have a job pay part of every bill that way they will want to get out on their own also, I would make rules like what time to be in etc, but just kicking them out I could not do, not this day & age we live in.
2007-03-25 18:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the child is over 18. Under that age what can you do but put up with the b*llsh*t.
Not being able to trust would do it for me. If I were afraid of that person stealing my stuff. But there are other things too. If that person were doing something to disrespect me or if they were filthy.
2007-03-25 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs, Alcoholism, Nymphomania.... ANYTHING, REALLY. If the kid will not follow the rules of the house. They shouldn't live in the house. 17 and older though. Any younger, and just bar the windows, take everything away, and tell them they get everything back when they do the right thing. Obey the rules of the house.
2007-03-25 18:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my answer would be yes.. there are probably a few good enough reasons....
... but to me ... they would have to be pretty big big reasons, not small things...
... if you consider your child a "cu*nt" ... lazy.... full of bullsh*t....
FIRST OF all... look at the fact that they came from YOU...
you .. you ... you...
of all the people walking this world..
YOU are 50% responsible for how they turned OUT
... i can only imagine how some of you people are YOURSELVES....
you are just plain dumb if you want to criticize how your own flesh and blood came out.. its like your talkin sh*t to yourself... ha haaaa .... they do have HALF of your genes or possibly even more!!
2007-03-25 19:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing drives them, thats why they do it. They have no emotion for the child. It sickens and disheartens me when I think of members of our society doing this and worse to the innocent young people who will become the adults making choices in our world
2007-03-25 18:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by adnilebbeautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if the child becomes a cu*nt who is horrible to be around or a criminal and won't try to change then they are outta my house. No money or possesions either.
2007-03-25 18:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disobedience.
2007-03-25 22:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by ud 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is and i just done it 2 days ago.He wouldnt work and i spent endless days and money taking him to look for work and when he got hired he said he wasnt working,then called me a **** when i wouldnt buy him a BMV and put him on my auto insurance and i found drugs in his room.
2007-03-25 20:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there is a point when it happens, I just can't imagine what it would take though.
2007-03-25 18:47:46 · answer #11 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋