it's been a while since i had a relationship and well, it was good but i felt like if there was something missing. Now i would like to start a new relationship but with someone that actually have certain characteristics, it has nothing to do with race or color, but instead lovely and innocent, is it ok to be this way?
2007-03-25 18:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by bravo20212000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not saying that i want to have sex with a virgin
2007-03-26 12:45:12 · update #1
It is very ok to be selective, if it is for the right reasons. The people we choose to pursue or start relationships with (even friends) reflect on ourselves. If we hold ourselves in high esteem, then it is only right for us to be choosy in who we invest our hearts and minds. If we simply jumped at every person who seemed interested, it would show only that we thought nothing of ourselves at all - that we thought we didn't "deserve" the best. So be choosy!! Just make sure that it's not only based on physical appearances. Make sure you are being choosy because you are looking for someone you deserve, and not just someone who fulfills some internal physical fantasy.
Also, and I only say this because you mentioned the idea of "innocence" -- keep in mind that an outward innocence is often times a game girls play to get attention. Very insecure girls (especially if they can pull off looking innocent physically!) will use the "innocent" act to win you over. But beware! These are the same girls that will likely be unfaithful, or extremely demanding when you pursue a relationship with them.
2007-03-25 18:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by casie_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Eat 10s for Dinner...
Heres the real situation: Its fantastic to be able to choose the type females you want to date. The question you really need to be asking is...how do i become the type person that can choose exactly what i want...on a daily basis? I personally get scoped out by 100s of women a day, then talk to 5-10 attractive girls on a daily basis. Within 20 secs I can "test" them into exactly what im looking for and then decide if their worthy...of my..time.
So why would you want to date an innocent/lovely girl? These type of girls make good "marriage" material.
Im not looking for marriage and tend have lots of friends with benefits that are either fun...crazy *** hoes with tattoos above their asses or bratty blondes that act like they always get their way.
Your answer:
Yes its good to be selective and you need to learn how to be selective. It's alot of fun...takes tons of experience...and you should be doing it on a daily basis.
UPDATED:
Its good to be selective for alot of reasons...selective for marriage material, selective for money, selective for keeping YOU out of trouble...tons of reasons to be selective..and YES being selective is good. Tell me what type chicks you want and ill tell you on some......insider secrets...on what to do.
2007-03-26 01:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It okay to be selective but make sure you dont set your charactaristics in stone: meaning allow for the unknown. Sometimes the person we end up with is the exact opposite of what we want and it works out.
2007-03-26 01:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course, it's alright to become selective but be sure it's for the better.
2007-03-26 01:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the only way to get what you want... and be happy... somebody's looking for your characteristics too... try online dating.
2007-03-26 01:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want to pop someones cherry, obviously you havent done it before, so I doubt you ever will
lameo
2007-03-26 01:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of course it's okay.
2007-03-26 01:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by AnonymousGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋