I gotta question for you all.. recently, my girl has been trying to get help from a guy I don't like or trust, to get a job in the company. She has been hiding text messages, calls, and emails. She needs him to come pick up an application, and I asked if I could be there, and she said, "no, because you will start something.." Even though I told her I wouldn't. She defends him a lot recently, even though they used to not like each other. She says, "I am not going to talk bad about someone who is helping me.."
I confronted both of them and both denied anything, even getting very angry about it.
So I grabbed her cell phone and noticed he sent a text saying, "He's so paranoid! LOL!" So I, acted like her, and said, "are we getting together?" And he said.. "Whatcha mean? Didn't I tell you I had a girlfriend from MySpace... lol" Though she said he told her he was single.
Confused, what to think?
2007-03-25 18:28:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IT doesnt sound lilke she is cheating sounds like u r being overly paranoid
2007-03-25 18:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i tihnk youre girlfriend is a bad person to stay adateing with likei think she is really not telling yo u the whole true about this whole thing about her saying that sh isnt doig anytihng with this other dude. . maybe she isnt no good to be with she might had lying to you for whole time . by the way i cant even believe that she allow a this guy to pick up a job application for her lol. i think some thing is going on with her and this guy . maybe you should put a hiding camera in her car in case she does doing some thing with this dude . or you can try to call the the cheater on to have them come to youre town and follow her where and who she been with . and you can find out if she is cheatin on you with some body else. have you ever watch that show the cheater!
Still if she siad that she wasnt in love or liking this guy anymore still maybe theyre still seeing eachother ever dont want you find out what the whole things going on past time. i think this dude is also cheating on his girlfriend with youre woman . if youre so upset about her cheating on you why , are you still with her then . you can do better then that find a better trusted and honestly girls out there that you wont worried who will in cheat on you again.
2007-03-26 01:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by statecalifornia2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding thing on her part is just as bad as your invading her privacy while checking her phone and stuff. If you can't really trust the girl, even if she ain't cheating, you will never be happy with her and will eventually break up. A girlfriend is like a handful of sand. If you just hold it, it stays in it. But if you close your hand hard, it will start leaking out.
2007-03-26 01:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there might be a flirtatious relationship with them it sounds fishy to me im sorry to say. I would let it go on for a LITTLE longer, and dont make ANY comments about it at all and see what happens. If things are still shady after oh 2 weeks or so, i would try to move on. good luck.
2007-03-26 01:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by sugarpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know it sounds funny coming from a girl but it sounds like it. Although you can never be sure. I just am saying that because I did the same thing once.
2007-03-26 01:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by ocampotx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first yes, but no i dont i think they're playin with u. how angry does she get wen u talk about him? when u ask or confront them, do u yell? if yes then they get deffensive, and angry. i dont think she is. one big sign if she is cheating she'll question u. most cheaters become paraniod and claim their partners are cheating. try flippin their game up and support her going to him. if she is cheating she'll feel guilty. but support her u want ur girl to have a job right?
2007-03-26 01:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by kaylia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be sleeping with him yet, but hidding things isn't good, which could lead to other things. Who knows what else she's hidding. Relationship is build around trust and if she's hidding things that's a sign.
2007-03-26 01:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by AZN D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just be paranoid. You have no real evidence. She hides stuff from you because she knows that you don't like him and it seems that you're not being supportive either.
2007-03-26 01:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Delaiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would guess yes they are messing around thats why they got mad because you caught them sort of she is using both of you and you guys are allowing it to continue. When I once cheated I got mad when my husband asked me and i said he was like a brother nothing more.So you can let her continue to use you but i would leave them to do their thing until he wakes up she will keep using him too.Shes out for what she can get and lately its having her cake and eating it too.
2007-03-26 01:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what to think either.. But if you love each other you 2 should trust each other..
2007-03-26 01:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋