I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be FRIENDS again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-25 18:20:43 · 4 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." She talked to everyone in the hall but me. I left her. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. I think I probably should just tell her happy birthday to show that I remember. Maybe I shouldn't even say that. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change.
I'll ask this in the form of a poll. Should I-
#1-Just say happy birthday to her (she's turning 17 and I'm 17)
#2-Completely ignore her
If I completely ignored her (which she did to me this year on my birthday and she knew it was my birthday) wouldn't that just be being immature or doing evil for evil? Even though I think that's what I have to do.
If I at least say happy birthday, I'm being the bigger person, showing that I'm still going to treat her right no matter how she treats me (although I'm paying her much less attention)?
2007-03-25 18:21:27 · update #1
I care about her alot, enough to get her something (as well as to let her go) but I'm just not going to. Also today I thought and I realized that in the last month of us talking, when she got angry at me, I had not done A THING to her. I was changing what she said I was doing wrong. Below are extra details which aren't required reading for answering the question.
2007-03-25 18:22:36 · update #2
EXTRA DETAIL-NO NEED TO READ THIS TO ANSWER THE QUESTION: When I liked her, she said she had liked me first. Then I asked her how she liked me the next day and she said she didn't know. It wasn't until a month later she said she didn't like me, but I really liked her. We had a good friendship for 4 months. The girl I fell in love with was a really shy, sweet, funny, beautiful girl. At least, I always felt she was beautiful even though everyone around me said she's just alright and she's no one special. I have this false, ridiculous small ray of hope that maybe one day she'll talk to me but I just don't want to try anymore.
2007-03-25 18:23:37 · update #3
i think #2
2007-03-25 18:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life!!! Do nothing for her b/d. Read a book, get a job, visit relatives, find another girl.......you've been dumped so get over it.
2007-03-26 01:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it a break man.. dont do anything for her on her birthday.. she dont want anything to do with you so move on.. she didnt do anything for your birthday prob bc she dont care..
2007-03-26 01:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say nothing but if you have to just get her a card..NOTHING ELSE...
2007-03-26 01:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by shellygrrlrox 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋