he hurt me twice...i want to forget him, i already have created distance , we dont even talk ...........but still i cant take things out of my mind, my friend says i have become absent minded, i am observing dark circles under my eyes:(............i try to keep my self busy all time but still cant forget him ................what should i do....yesterday i hangout with my friends but still i did not enjoy as i used to enjoy before :( please help me otherwise i will go mad
2007-03-25 18:18:15 · 6 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need more time to recover. Give yourself a few months to 1 year. First you really got to convince your innerself that it is definitely not doing you any good to make yourself suffer t thinking about him all the time (remember how bad he used to treat you). Then, You are right, keeping yourself busy with other stuff are good things to forget pain. Do things that you like, things that make you happy (Shop if that makes you happy, Sing karaoke) or Take some break, go on holidays. Hang out more with other friends, most importantly meet other guyz. Who knows you may meet someone that truely love you, then you will be much much happier. Always think positively!
2007-03-25 18:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wronged you, distance is a good thing for you. Like others have said, distance and time do heal one's heart; this I know from experience. If you are a religious person, I would suggest spending time in prayer, as this takes your mind off of the pain and places your focus elsewhere. Just keep in mind that this world and what it has to offer are much larger than this situation, and there are many more guys out there. Don't ever give up hope. Just try to take your focus off of the situation.
2007-03-25 18:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by ddc671mechanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either go see a therapist/psychiatrist or make things with the guy better. u either have to solve the problem or let time solve it itself. but time doesnt seem to be helping u. so either think about being with him again...if thats even an option for u..or just be friends again. maybe ur not doin so well because yall arent friends after whatever u went thru together and u cant handle not talking. and if u dont wanna take initiative and fix the problem urself, then i would maybe talk to one of his close friends, just so yall can at least be friends. or if that is not an option, again, i would talk to a psychiatrist. and let time work its magic
2007-03-25 18:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard to forget about him because that will just make you think about him even more. Just relax, have fun, and time will heal everything on its own. Also whenever you think about him again, try to change the thought into something happy or funny. Don't let yourself see the negative things.
2007-03-25 18:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over someone it does happen over night. u don't need some one who hurts u things happen for a reason u might find some one who respects you and treats you well
2007-03-25 18:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Juju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know eveyone says this, but give it time. Seriously. DOn't relate everything you see to him. (Oh! He loved those jeans. Oh! He used to like those kids of dogs, etc...) DON'T go out and try to make him jealous or do anything you'll regret in a week.
2007-03-25 18:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋