I love him the way he is, but since we got married I stop myself for making great things because I do not want to make him feel
threatened with my succes and loose him. What should I do?
2007-03-25 17:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
English is not my native language, I learned it on tv. So answer what I am asking, and dont be rude.
2007-03-25 18:04:32 · update #1
if you are Happy with what you have, then...
ask him if he wants you to accept these jobs that will make you guys more money. if you ask him, it will make him feel like he is making a decision and being the man of the house. if anything, it might make him want to do better. in the meantime, you guys will have more money!
2007-03-25 18:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH My Gosh.... hisband?? ambicious??
you do not need to look for fault with your" hisband. "
If he had been a little more "ambicious" he probably would have looked for a wife that had enough smarts to be able to spell simple words.
My advice to you is to bookmark www.onelook.com.
It is a web site that you ( and your hisband) can use to check your spelling.
Hope this helps!!!
English may not be your primary language, but it is no excuse. If you can converse in this language, you can certainly spell husband correctly.
2007-03-26 01:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by J W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had to have known this before you married him, right? Why hold yourself back? If you're ambitious and he's not, go for it. Are you sure you two are meant to be together? It seems like you both are unhappy with each other and hoping to change the other one.
2007-03-26 01:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mature men these days are not threatened by a woman's success. In fact, they find it very attractive. Your priorities are all wrong here. Don't you care about your personal fulfillment?
2007-03-26 10:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, instead of being accomplished like you would like to be, you keep yourself down so he can feel better about himself because he doesnt care about accomplishing anything.
Does any of that make any sense to you???
2007-03-26 00:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIX YOUR SPELLING FOR CHRIST SAKE
trust me you are not making anyone feel threatened with that horrid spelling i cant imagine you are as SUCCESSFUL as you think.
NOTE:
husband
Ambitious
success
lose
2007-03-26 00:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Fer t 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you then he would not be threatened.
2007-03-26 00:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie Pie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should learn how to spell.
2007-03-26 01:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by 3d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
fix your punctuation
2007-03-26 00:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋