Do i have to be a star to attract women?

Question

I am just an average Asian man living in Canada. I've been ignored by women most of my life. I believe I am completely normal, even I am slightly taller than average asian man (5'10.5) and more athletic and richier (multi-millionaire).

The real question is, do i really need to be outstanding to draw female attention? If yes, physically or in career? I know that achievement = confidence, but in my life, I really havn't achieve anything outstanding. I've been a good student, and that's all. And my rich family has always provided me with all the necessities.

The bottom line is, do i need to be a star to attract women?

Yes, I've been myself the whole time, and yet, no one, and i meant it, no one I'm interested seemed to be interested. And the purpose of life is to reproduce. If I end up dying single, I've failed my duty as a man. And in 23 years of my life, been ignored has already caused a lot of depression.

Answer 1

no never, there is not necessity to be a star to attract the woman, u should go for ur career first, see u r totaly depends on ur family, coz u r from rich family, but if u have no good career, if u cant stand on ur foot, then u would be face problem in the future, coz money is not stable, if ur family will face the problem financially in future, then u cant do anything coz u dont know how to earn money, so better u concentrate on ur career, then automatically u get not woman but good girl in ur life, coz beauty is not forever, but characteristic is forever, when u make ur career then u will be good characteristic, and keep in mind women or girls r not attracting on physical body, but they attract by ur inner quality, ur inner beuty, that is confidence, courage, honesty etc. so go for ur career first, i know it is very tough to u coz u r rich but dear friend u should have ur own identity in this world, then u would be success in ur life, so make ur own identity first, and u would get success in ur life not only in woman but in every field, i know it is tough to change ur attitude but remember one thing dear friend, nothing is impossible in this world coz impossible itself says that i m possible. have a nice day.

Answer 2

I can't speak for everyone but I know that many would agree ...... when you find the woman that is right for you ... you will be a star in her eyes .... just be yourself !!!
Nobody likes someone who is superficial ( not saying you are ) and there are many that don't care at all about money . Most women just want a partner they can trust who is loving , fun and kind. Not so complicated at all.
Maybe you just aren't putting yourself in a position to meet someone .
With regards to what you said ... achievement = confidence. Do you feel that you have no confidence because you also feel you have achieved so little? I've got news for you .... it's not about achievement at all .... it's about personal growth. Start looking for those things that in your life can help you to grow as a person. Never mind the big business opportunity or building your empire. Jump out of that circle you're in and into the real world. Donate some time to a needy cause .... see the world for what it really is ... live and learn a little . Do things that make you feel good about who you are .... feed your soul and build your confidence by taking part..... . Do your own thing for a while ,you will be surprised what you might find when you least expect it . You get the picture ???
Wish you all the best , take care : )

Answer 3

No you don't. Just be yourself. I know that sounds cliché but it's true. After all, you don't want to end up with someone who doesn't like the real you, do you? When you say you have been ignored by women do you mean that they haven't asked you out? Or have you asked and then they say no? If it's the first, then you may just be around very shy women. Or they may be intimidated by a difference in pay checks. If it's the second, then you may be giving off the wrong sort of vibes. Not to stick you in a stereotype but many of the Asian men that I have met have seemed rather aloof and standoffish. It's sometimes hard to tell what they are thinking and the body language is sometimes very different from what I am use to so maybe I just read them wrong. This could be happening in your case. Do you have many female friends or is it difficult for you to talk to women? If it's difficult then a good thing to do is find a club of some sort about something you are interested in and try meeting people there. The bar is a bad place to start a relationship. But the biggest thing in attracting women is to actually talk to them and find at least one thing in common, this will give you the groundwork to finding more things in common. And be open to new experiences, sometimes you have to step outside of your comfort zone to get a pleasant surprise.

Answer 4

Not necessarily a star, but you will probably have to be passionate about something.

My first impression is that women might not want to get involved with you because your family has provided for you your entire life. Women generally want someone who can provide for them. They don't want the "momma's boys," usually.

If you became more independent from your family's riches, I'll bet you will get more attention from women (at least those of us who don't date just for the money). Women also don't usually like "high maintenance men." We like to be treated like princesses, but not be involved with men that are princesses. When you are around women, don't appear too concerned with yourself. Appear more concerned with those around you.

Generally, women like men who pay more attention to them than they do to themselves.

Also, what to do with all that money? Don't flaunt it. Put it towards something useful, maybe even start your own business or start working for a voluntary cause because you don't need to work for money. A generous man is always attractive to woman. And, there are more women than men that volunteer, so you have a good chance of meeting women while volunteering. And they will already know what a generous guy you are!

Hope this helps!

Just remember, be yourself and let your personality shine through all the time!

Answer 5

The reason a woman would be attracted to a star is that she feels that person can provide what she feels she wants: status, excitement, fun.
You can provide all that without being a star. When a woman sees a star, she thinks of status. This is her biological part of her kicking in. A woman wants an "alpha male" type because, biologically speaking, he will give her offspring that has more likely chance of survival. "Stars" are typically seen as an "alpha male" type. You can provide this "alpha male" mystique if you shape up your confidence and becoming more assertive. Present these "alpha male" qualities and biologically, something in a woman will click.
Also, women tend to find exciting men more attractive because they have more fun when they are around them. So be fun to be around when it comes to women. Don't be too timid or shy because they will just be put off by that and they will feel that being around you isn't very pleasant for them. Also, don't show that your intimidated by beauty. If a woman sees her beauty empowers you, you will have no chance with her. A woman is more attracted to a guy with higher standards, and when a guy shows that it takes more than her beauty to do it for you, her self-esteem kicks in and she subconsciously has to get your "approval". Don't give it! Ever! Because once you do, she will be satisfied and move onto her next "admirer" and slay him, too, to feed her self-esteem.

Answer 6

i would hope not... Stars of all kinds do rise , but, too often they fall eventually . . how sad that would be, having a relationship that was built only on fame and glory.. Once lost there too would go the relationship... seeking another star to hang out with, with more money, glory or fame... The thrill of conquest- purpose / value by association?
Money can not make one truly happy.. not that it can't be fun for as long as it lasts.. but, false joy is that too. ...fleeting.
Women not only want, but need security in their lives.. financial and emotional.. that means not wealth....... but, knowing to trust each other in financial matters.. spending, saving, choices and respecting each others decisions..
and , in being faithful, honest and having a moral character that would not be compromised.. a man of integrity..
bad boys are just that..... exciting for the moment , in the long haul... stress...
Being rich doesn't make you better than most, it just allows you have more available to the choices and things of life perhaps to do , others can not. Money doesn't make the person.. The person makes the person.
I have had wealth, and sorrow.. and been a pauper and happy. The money allowed me to do things i can not do now, but, it didn't give me joy, or a soft shoulder to be comforted with.. I too have been poor by worldly standards.. but, full of joy i never had before..
The character of one is either shallow as a pond, or deep as an ocean.. The choice is theirs alone...
Good luck to you...

Answer 7

Nope.... you just gotto attract the right ones...

I'm asian but not rich nor that athletic nor that tall... but i got girls around me coz i aim to respect them and to become a gentleman...

being rich isn't all that either... you just got to be down-to-earth kind of guy if you really like to have a real person to believe and love you...

I got a friend who is so rich girls go after him for his money but thats all... after done with him they just shove him off... they're the type of girls you don't want to end up with since their gold diggers...

The bottom line is... you dont need to be a star to attract women you just have to be a real person...

A piece of advice... be nice to one girl... doesn't matter if she's attractive or beautiful... after this i'm pretty sure you'll attract women by the dozens... unless their after you money...

Answer 8

It's not about being a movie star.. it's about having self confidence. If you have self-confidence, others will notice it and be attracted to you. If you have low self esteem and feel sorry for yourself all the time then you can't get anyone. It's not about clothes, money, cars, or status. It's about being confident about yourself and treating others with respect that will make you shine.

Answer 9

well...for one mentioning the multi millions will get their attention.... but being a gent and not a woof woof would do it for me, although having money is helps. just dont let a woman take it from you. make sure it a long term relationship first, and treat her like a lady....not a door mat. the first and foremost respect is a big big deal. make her feel special and wanted and loved or she will take it and run... and if you need help spending it, i am here. i would be happy with 50,000.00. lol...just joking. for me... feeling the love you may give is very important... and how you act around other women (if your out with one, dont gawk at the others like your a dog in heat, its disrespectful!!!!

Answer 10

if you were a star and some one says they care for you...there is a chance they dont mean it. They might be thinking about the $$$ but they dont really know who you are deep down inside. being an average guy and being youself not someone behind cool clothes and cars.(which is not bad but not a reason to love some one =D) If some one really cares about you they care for who you are.