I am a single parent to one high functioning autistic teenage son. recently I was sent in on a 72hr involuntary psych. hold. It was in a different county from where I live. I am concerned that CPS will be coming to my home just because of the hold and to make sure I am not unstable.
Does this automatically get reported if a parent is sent in by the police?
I am very anxious about the possibility. What should i prepare for? what will they be looking for? I am scared .....
2007-03-25 17:48:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I doubt it. I have bipolar disorder, and have been told by social workers that, as long as there is a family member to take care of a child if I become ill, there is no concern. You'll only be reported if they saw evidence that you were neglecting your son due to your illness. And honestly, if you had fallen off a ladder and gotten a concussion, and had to be admitted for THAT, would they call CPS in too? You were sick, and you got medical attention. Period. It doesn't matter how you got to the hospital, because typically police are called for psychiatric emergencies instead of paramedics (unless you've od'd or attempted suicide) because they have the right training to deal with the situation. There is nothing wrong with that, and it doesn't make you a bad mother, and they KNOW that. Email me if you need moral support.
2007-03-25 18:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bethany's post. I doubt that you have anything to worry about - make sure the house is REALLY neat and clean with food in the fridge. Be really nice and polite if someone from CPS comes to the door. Answer the questions you are asked but do NOT rattle on and on volunteering information just to fill up empty spaces. Also, know that it would be hard in most counties to place an autistic teenage boy - it is hard to place teenagers at all - so your chances of losing him are rather remote.
2007-03-25 19:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know where you are and there is variation but I used to work in child welfare in the US and in my state there is no such automatic contact for a parent going in to the hospital.
If a report was made a caseworker (at least here) is required to make contact w the parent & child w/in a short period of time. Well under 72 hours so I am guessing no such referral was made.
If they did show up (which I am guessing is not going to happen) they would just want to make sure you are OK now. They would talk to you and whoever else lives at your home and they would want to talk to whatever dr you saw to make sure you are OK.
2007-03-26 00:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at risk of CPS investigation no matter what. Social workers need kids to fulfill their sick perversions, not to mention to line their pocketbooks, and will stop at nothing to acquire them - even if that means taking them away from a happy home.
If they come to your house, DO NOT let them in. Only let them in if they've got a police officer with a warrant. Once they're inside, consider your life and the lives of your children to be ruined.
2007-03-26 14:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by This Is Me Being Grumpy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know but I have a friend who works with CPS and she said basically... that the house is clean, they have a bed, and not opposite sex's in the same room, food, that his room is safe to sleep in, just basic stuff like that and also that he is being fed and doesn't look like he is being neglected but all in all I'm sure if they do come you will be fine b/c they are not coming because of your child/children. i wish the best for you that has to really suck. Good luck
2007-03-25 17:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by bethany j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are at risk. Prepare yourself by making sure your home is neat, clean, and well stocked with nutritional food.
Make sure your son is attending school, prepared for class, doing extracurricular activities, and that you're involved.
Take your meds (if you have any), attend any counseling/therapy sessions, and follow doctors orders to show you're trying to get better.
Get involved with organizations like CARD (Center for Autism and Related Disabilities) that can help you with resources for your son, including respite care. These are free services and can be a tremendous help.
Contact a lawyer. Many have free consultations, and they can advise you on your rights, responsibilities, and what to do if they show up at your door.
Good luck!
2007-03-25 18:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by TeacherLady 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They had to believe you were not a threat to yourself or others or they would not have allowed you to go. They can easily keep you 90 days. The court would have final say, but you are best off keeping out of the situation in the future.
2007-03-25 18:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by lyyman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have alot to worry about. sometimes, things happen for a reason. you need a better support system and need to set some goals. find a good counselor and accept the help.
2007-03-25 18:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know but i have a 4 yr old autistic son......... i feel your pain hope everything works out for you
2007-03-25 17:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
they have the right to leaf by each thing you personal. could have newborn porn on your computing gadget, could have e-mailed acquaintances about your rotten youngster that you hate that merits being overwhelmed. many stuff.
2016-12-02 19:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋