im 18 years old i got pregnant when i was 16 by my 1st real boyfriend i love him alot he broke up with me after 2 years he say he dont love me like he use to so now he is going with this girl he always talked to and he always said he didnt like her but i kinda felt like he was lieing to me cause now he is dating her so i want to make a step and move on so wat should i do someone please help me cause i dont want him to think i want him cause i dont cause im losing feelings 4 him anyway but i love him but i dont feel him like i use to eathjier so it really dont matter any more so its like this i dont want to get in any more relationships scared he do me the same thing lose the way he feel bout me and this done made me not wanna get married just scared after so long he wont love me any more so some one please help i dont wanna feel like this but i do wanna move on but i dont think noone will like me cause i have low self esteem
2007-03-25 17:09:20 · 8 answers · asked by lakita s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just broke up with my boyfriend, too and there isn't much to do. I listin to music and watch tv. I dunno how old you are but if your 21 you can go to the clubs. Thats what I plan to do when I have off next weekend.
2007-03-25 17:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One baby.Just get an IUD or a really good birth control method.You only have one child you still have hope to find that perfect man.Get on your feet,get a job if you don't have one,get an apartment, and take care of yourself.You don't need a man.Basically he is tired of screwing the same vagina he loves you but he want he wants to mess around.I had the same situation but my then boyfriend didn't break up with me he just played me.So consider yourself lucky.Men will come and go like the bus every 15 minutes.Take care of that baby.Further your education for you and your childs future.
2007-03-26 00:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl rule #1 Never say you have low self esteem that only make people play on you. As far as dude goes KIMv(KeepItMovin). After two years you ain't loose nothing!Besides your very young and all he did was you a favor....make way for the next one. Every time yall cross paths have a smile on your face and keep him guessing don't volunteer no information....be like the army-ALL YOU CAN BE!!!!!!
2007-03-26 00:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by convinced_cexequeen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you are going to have to forget about him. Go to clubs and parties with a group of friends. Have a good time and flirt with the cuties. It is time to move on. Keep your head up and enjoy life and all of the peopl who are in it. Pick your self up, have faith in your self!!!!
2007-03-26 00:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time and pray about the pain going away. it gets better with time. dont rush into another relationhship. it will happen when it's supposed to.
2007-03-26 00:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by t t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll never be able to just forget him, you have a kid together you just have to move on if not for yourself for your kid. there is the right someone for everyone, you'll find him when you are ready
2007-03-26 00:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TRY TO NOT HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM AT ALL
2007-03-26 00:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REBOUND!!!
2007-03-26 00:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by lovelizabeth@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋