ok so i went out with this guy ted* for 6 months well i got really attached n was almost ready to say i loved him well he started to separate from me and was distand n never wanted to talk to me.so i was like i dont need this ill break up w/ him.N after i did i was fine for a week well then one of his freinds(clint*) and i started to talk n clint* said how he thought i was so smart to have broken up w/ ted* becasue i deserved so much better.Well i started to believe clint* n about a week after i broke up w/ ted* i went out with clint*well that only lasted a week then i broke up with him cause i realized that i still had feelings for ted*.n now ted* refuses to talk to me i have called him texted,im'ed....nothing i working n his best friend told he that he doesn't care n hates me.n i started to cry after i heard this so that made me feel like i really do like ted* still.but he wont talk to me n i wanted to talk to him but idk wat to do PLZ help!!=]
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2007-03-25 17:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by Shell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go groveling back to him on your hands and knees.
The chances are that he will kick you in the teeth, but good luck.
2007-03-25 17:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit stalking these guys. You trashed your relationship with both of them and it would be most unlikely that either will ever want to be involved again.
You're not a bad person for this you just made a mistake many people knew to relationships make. You lost the ability to communicate with the first one and in a panic dumped him. Then the second came along and reinforced your feelings so you dated him for awhile. Then you realized you had made a mistake.
Now they both have a low opinion of you and you have learned a very valuable lesson. By the way it is always bad form to date a close friend of an ex. You need to move on completely when you break up changing your playground and your playmates. Guys take this sort of thing real seriously come to think of it so do girls. Can't see myself inviting anyone over for lunch that dates my ex. It just is not done.
So what to do move on. Take some time off from dating while you get your head right.. Try to really look at what went wrong in your last relationship and resolve not to repeat those mistakes. Good luck you're a good kid and have many happy relationships in your future.
2007-03-26 00:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love him than u should be with he. But, you did not need to go out with Clint because u lose the one u love. Ted just wanted to see if your the one but u went out with Clint. that was like u saying u will not be there for him.
2007-03-26 00:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by queenke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too late you cannot change his mind. You made a wrong mistake and it is time to move on!
There are probably better guys than ted anyways.
So listen to me say good bye to Ted forever since he wont talk to you anyways.
But if he calls you again you might want to rethink coming back to him.
2007-03-26 00:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search your feelings and be honest with this man . but way the pros and cons first.
2007-03-26 00:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by sherianne_29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋