2007-03-25 17:05:20 · 21 answers · asked by K11 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It's not necessary for someone to tell their parents. As long as they tell a trusted adult such as a school counselor, who would then tell the parents.
If the child chooses, they may want to talk to the family physician and it would be protected under doctor-patient confidentiality.
The physician could only notify the parents if he/she had reason to believe the child was in *immediate* danger of harming themselves. A physician must also report reasonable suspicions of the child being harmed by someone else, i.e. child sexual abuse.
Essentially, a kid could be prescribed medication and get counseling from a psychiatrist and while the parents would know and have to pay for medications, they would not be entitled to know what was being discussed in therapy.
So you see, there is no excuse *not* to get help.
2007-03-25 17:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"An unrelenting and oppressive sadness comes over us which causes a very real pain, as if the pain of the sudden loss of a parent stays with us for weeks, months, and even years. It is as if we are trapped in a dark cave or possibly a tunnel that runs only from our constant pain to somewhere near hell, with no exit to heaven and no exit to joy. We begin to think that there is no relief and that this pain will never end. Tomorrow will be the same, or worse. Death may be the only solution!
Suicide is not a solution, it is an end before a solution can be found. It cannot be considered an option, for an option denotes we have a choice and death robs us of both, option and choice. Death is an irreversible act that does not end the pain, for it remains in those who are left behind....."
http://www.have-a-heart.com/suicide.html
If someone is feeling suicidal they shook seek the comfort and advice of someone that they care for deeply and they know that person/s feels the same way for them. It doesn't have to be their parents per say, but someone they can depend on to be there for them. There are many causes for feeling suicidal, all of them don't even stem from external circumstances. And, feeling suicidal is a signal that it's time for something somewhere in that person's life needs to change.
Good luck!
2007-03-26 01:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight Butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should tell someone.Doesnt really have to be parents. But tell somebody though. Call a suicide hotline,a friend, Or jus anyone you trust. It's not good to keep them kind of feelings in. It may seem like no body will understand.but there IS someone who will understand you. Keep ya head up. CALL someone.
2007-03-26 00:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by BabiiGrL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes when you are feeling down or you have a lot of problems you think that don't have a solution you may feel like you want to end everything, life is not easy... but its not hell, im sure that what you are going thru has a solution. You should definetley not keep those feelings for yourself, in fisrt place is dangerous for yourself and in second place is just going to make you feel worst. Talk to someone, anyone you trust you dont need to talk to your parents, talk to someone you thinnk can help you. Trust me it helps!
2007-03-26 00:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by PM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell someone you trust about your feelings, it can be your parents, or a friend, just make sure you don't keep those feelings bottled up inside because then the feelings usually become worse.
2007-03-26 00:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by stargirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they have good parents they feel comfortable with then absolutely. If they don't feel comfortable with their parents they should tell someone they do feel comfortable with. I was feeling suicidal a few months ago, I went to my husband and he called my doctor. I went to counseling and am feeling much better. They might need therapy or possibly medication. Good health and God Bless. I now I'm a stranger but if you need someone to talk to my email is shelly_fshr@yahoo.com. My name is Shelly.
2007-03-26 01:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, You should tell your parents or someone else you feel you can trust a friend, counselor or some other supportive friend
2007-03-26 00:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by usamedic420 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. if you have a plan on how to do it, then that is scary. if you're just thinking about ending your life because you are depressed, but not thinking about acting it out, then you could tell your parents (don't know your age) or talk to someone who would understand
2007-03-26 00:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Steenskees 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, definitely. You need help now. If you're not comfortable telling your parents, tell another adult you trust who can help you such as a teacher, school counselor, or pastor.
2007-03-26 00:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by CatD 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, yes, yes.
Sit down with them and explain the feelings you are having. Ask them for help. They love you and want what's best for you. No matter what you think, dying isn't the answer.
My prayers are with you.
2007-03-26 00:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by DZ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋