we've been dating 5 months were waitin till we get married she is a virgin, she can't orgasm, we play and thats all. am i unexperienced. Is she nervous. will our honey moon be fab or sham.I'm 24 she's 20 should i buy a lil rabbit toy. I'm not intimidated i can talk. should i ask why. what can we do to warm up for our lovelife under the covers.
2007-03-25 17:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn how to pleasure her with your tongue. rabbit, bullet, or small vibrator
2007-03-25 17:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by baldy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women can't have an orgasm and some can only have a vaginal orgasm.some can only have a clitoral orgasm so it depends on her body.maybe she's afraid to because when a woman has an orgasm she feels like she is about to urinate and some girls hold it and won't untense their muscles.so maybe it could be that.maybe you're just not touching the right spots at the right time.women are very sensitive and sometimes if you begin stimulating the clitoris and stop and then try to come back to it it will tickle and some girls find that annoying.so try to stay at it ask her what feels the best to her and just communicate with her .have you tried g spot stimulation with exciting the clitoris sometimes this works too.
2007-03-26 00:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by marcelleaandbryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If ur are 'waiting' (which is very smart of th two of you) why must you 'warm up your lovelife under the covers'? i dont mean u shud be all hands off... i mean u can cuddle and make out and feel her next to u, against u whatever... but i dont get why u dont have sex yet want to giver her an orgasm...
1st why are u guys waiting? religous reasons? she wants to wait? either way.... 'playing' around is only going to make this conviction of yours seem stupid...and she knows it ... so she is prolly too uncomfortable (and perhaps havin a moral dilemma in her head)
when u guys get down to business hence she cant completly relaxed enuf to reach orgasm..
why does it matter if ur honeymoon is a fab or a sham?? so what if she isnt an acrobat in bed? ur going to MAKE LOVE to her on that day...and love conquers all.,.. i just dont get why u guys are waiting if u'll want to mess around anyway....
if this is in fact one of her rules, respect it dont buy her a vibrator .. take her to dinner and kiss under the stars..
i think 5 months is too short a time for her to cast away her inhibitions and feel free enuf to let go... because remeber she isnt letting go because YOU GUYS JOINTLY AGREED NOT TO...
Think about it!
2007-03-26 00:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nadz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot and alot of girls can't orgasm...it has nothing to do with the guy at all, the girl just cant..some girls will never have a orgasm in their life!
If she's tense try and relax her, be soft and all that mushy stuff we girls dig that.
Oh, and try and experiment too.
Good luck.
2007-03-26 00:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of al you only been together for a short time. to take some
time to get to know each other. because if she a virgin then
she cant have orgasm. that when you have the sex. so maybe
both of you need to slow this down.
2007-03-26 00:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will tell you that in my personal experience, I was not able to orgasm until I was older and I suspect only because it was after I had my first baby.
If you are comfortable with talking to her about orgasms, tell her about this website. She needs to know how to orgasm before she can tell you how she orgasms.
http://www.womenstemple.com/workshops.shtml
2007-03-26 00:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The rabbit can be a girl's best friend...I guarantee she'd have an orgasm.
2007-03-26 00:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by pilotpat2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if she is a virgin then how is she going to Orgasm ? It takes actuall sex even oral sex to give her an orgasm. Didn't you take sex Ed ?
2007-03-26 00:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is the only one to tell u what she likes if she don't know she needs to start getting in touch with her body this is something u 2 will grow with and good luck with everything and remember relaxing is the key and then enjoy
2007-03-26 00:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by givemesum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does she masturbate? If she doesn't, she should start and tell you what makes her feel good so that you can do it to her. Ask her. It will help.
2007-03-26 00:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋