ok I wrote all my feelings down on text and i have it ready to text him. The problem is that it is a break up text. I am fed up with his ****. It is a long story but he does not treat me right he put his baby mother first and I dont like that. When I mean first I mean he dont answer my calls or text whenever he is with her. SO if he is with her for two days he wont speak to me, get the picture. So I want to text this letter to him but dont know when is the right time. I would text him now but I figure he may be sleeping. I think tomorrow when he get out of work is better ot maybe the following day. I cant speak to him because he would try to manipulate the conversation and try to make me seem wrong. So I feel there is no better way.
2007-03-25 16:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not immature I just want to give him all my feelings without any interuptions and I really dont want to hear his voice anymore. Nor do I want to see him ever again. Thats why I want to do it through text. But by the looks of it some of you disagree
2007-03-25 17:21:42 · update #1
You are in a losing situation break it off with him. If he was to completely leave her and be with you he would feel guilty because his child would be the one to pay the price. You need to encourage him to stay with his child and the mother and find someone who really loves you and can devote his full attention to you. In divorce and seperation it is the children that pay the price and they pay it for the rest of their lives. Break the Chain
2007-03-25 17:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Justme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all that baby should come first before you or anyone else, not trying to be harsh but it's a baby and the baby needs to spend quality time with it's parents without dad being too distracted by your msg's. Second don't do it by text if you can't face the guy and talk to him then you are too immature to be in a relationship anyway. If you don't want to be with him don't be with him but at least have the guts to face him and tell him that you's are over. I think you are just pi$$ed that he puts the baby before you and your pi$$ed that he spends time with the babies mum, well they will be in his life forever so you either need to get used to the arrangement and if you can't handle it leave.
2007-03-26 00:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texting is one of the worst ways to talk about your feelings. You really need to do this in person. If he wont' meet with you, it's voicemail time. He may try to manipulate the situation, but at least you get to say what's going on on your end. You know you're not wrong.
2007-03-26 00:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if y'all are dating and he won't answer your calls or text when he is with his baby's mother I would tend to think that there might still be some feelings between them if there is or not sounds like he needs to figure out who is more important you or her and if it is you and she refuses to let him see his child he needs to get a legal advice on what his rights as a father are but if he is not willing to do that i would end the relationship before it goes any farther and someone gets really hurt emotionally and it sound like that person would probably be you.
2007-03-26 00:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by jon j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be strong and tell him, not text him. Who's to say after you send the text he won't call you and try to make you feel wrong and then you'll take him back? Make the call.
2007-03-26 00:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him have it right now don't feel sorry for this user.ask yourself this.does he care about your feelings?does he care that he is stringing you along and only wants you as a sideline girl?is he there for you when you want him there or even when you need him there?so my advice would be to text him your mind right now and be foward with it don't back down from him and don't feel bad because if he were in your shoes he would not feel bad for you!
2007-03-26 00:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by marcelleaandbryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont text him....first of all be 120% sure you want to break up with him if it is over then let it be over for good once and for all and be the bigger person and tell him directly why you dont want to see him any more and stick to your decision dont let him flip it on you...good luck
2007-03-26 00:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by starr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, nooo, he's a "mama's boy"... Let him go, he is NOT going to change.
You might want to check out my last answer to someone about when u think it's time to bail out.
Just go to my last answer before this one.
Don't text him, just stop everything. THEN see what HE does!
2007-03-26 00:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by misty488 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋