2007-03-25 16:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because we're human - we all want to love and to be loved by someone...i guess that's just the nature of it...
2007-03-25 17:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch feelings???
or have feelings?
casual fling? .. like in one night stand...?
because for many, believe it or not, there is a built in belief that the casual /one night thing might turn into more... One gives up the barriers of both emotional and physical exposure to get close to another human being.. It is about emotions and trust and hopes often.
The sensitive side of us.
The most vulnerable part of us..
Maybe that is why we get hurt easily.. we let our selves down too...... for something so meaningless and short..
we become like chess pieces moved around in a game..
when we are all seeking in truth .. check MATE..
2007-03-26 00:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People catch feelings because their human. Casual sex happens; but most times sex triggers emotional responses that can't be denied. And like it or not something happens when you share your body with another human being.
With that said; it's mostly conditioning; for women particularly. It's that old school idea that men put notches on their belts, and that women should be "chase" or "pure" before her "lol" big day of snagging a man.
So women are conditioned to believe that sex is love and catch feelings. Not all women, but many woman still believe that sex can make a man fall in love with them. And its one of the most bogus belief systems that women carry with them till this day.
So a woman will have sex with you and play the game and then when she get's played she wants to know where she went wrong in the game.
To all women: You can't front like your'e a man; cause your'e not. Save yourself for someone who cares; because it aint worth giving up your goodies to get hurt by people who want to get notches.
And yes, men catch feelings, but rarely does a woman have sex with a man just to "get off", but the reverse happens with men more often because it's such a part of American culture.
A man will have sex with a woman even if she has a brown paper bag over her head.
Sad but true.
M.
2007-03-26 00:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Get Togetha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just human nature to feel close to someone that you have slept with.. I have had this situation before.. I had a casual thing with this guy i know and it for some reason turned into more i started developing feelings for him i guess i thought that we had a connection! and it turns out he feels the same way so we are "talking" now!
2007-03-26 00:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flings happens to use feelings which goes the same direction...just the ending is different which is when to stop
2007-03-26 00:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by redpoker777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has feelings for you and you have none for her be a man and tell her. Don't let her make a fool of herself being gaga about a guy that has no interest!
2007-03-26 00:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they need to feel loved and wanted
2007-03-26 00:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz not everyone can just have sex without strings attached, espcially women.
2007-03-26 00:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some of us can't develope feelings for someome.. it sucks!!!
2007-03-26 00:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋