Im 17 and am in a relationship with a 15 year old(plz dont judge) and he is mature, but relationship wise he is not that mature. He is also very jealous. I am starting to like this other guy who is older than the guy im with now. What if I really start liking the other guy? Will it be wrong to end things with the guy Im already in a relationship with?
2007-03-25 16:43:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!! being in a relationship does not mean u are stuck with hiim for the rest of your life. He is imature try new guys. experiement and have fun
2007-03-25 16:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by taty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 yrs. old you should not consider yourself in a relationship at this age. I realize how u feel your want to be with someone. You do not even realize what a relation is if you do not know 15 yrs old or older. Save or self. Jealousy is evil. You will are dangerous asking for trouble. Relationship means one person. Not confused. Youth--can not make serious decision because your emotions are controlling your moral and self esteem. Leave the 15 yrs old alone and the older guy. Guys talk--and what do you care if you are a tramp, whore, etc. Continue to get an education and do well in school. Your body is taking over your mind. Do not waste your time on foolish things at your age. I pray it matters how many boys u will be with before the right one comes. The cards are in your hand. You choose foolish girl. You get hurt messing around with boys because you think u all that--Beware!
2007-03-25 16:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH? ur really confused.... sorry i DID judge.... how can he be mature 'otherwise' but not mature 'relationship wise'? the only reason you are hesitant about dumping this young guy is bcos u are afraid u will scar the poor kid for life... and u 'liking' this older guy is in a sense an infidelity..u are cheating on him... plus ur hurting them both by being indecisive...i hope this younger guy is as mature as u think he is to get over u.. no wonder he is jealous.. the age gap is making him insecure..and looks like he has every right to be....
2007-03-25 16:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nadz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm not judging you but it is almost fact that because guys are so immature, they need to be several years older than you. Which is probably why you and this new guy hit it off. The 15 year old is jealous because he needs experience. It will not be wrong to postpone that pre-mature relationship.
2007-03-25 16:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nique T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a girl actually dating someone that's older than me... so it's sort of different between our relationships.. But usually girls go for a bit older guys because for as long as it was 'Girls Mature Faster Than Boys Do'
So... that's why I always went for the older guys and all and I'm not sure if you should just break it off with your 15 year old boyfriend.. but maybe he isn't quite at the maturity level as you are... that's why in my opinion I go for older guys.
I don't actually find myself at the age of '14' because I know I'm more mature than the 14 year old guys in my grade.. I look at them as immature and weird.. so I actually hang around all 16, 17 & 18 year olds... but that's just me I guess, but girls do mature faster, I'm tellin yah.
Go for what you feel is right and comfortable at your maturity level. Good Luck. <3
2007-03-25 16:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age you should not be in a relationship with any one person. You need to date and enjoy life without being tied down to one. How will you know what you want in a man for a husband if you don't date to find out?Don't tie yourself to one but be friends with many.Date but be free to see who you want when you want. Your likes and dislikes in men will change many times over the next 6-7 years. That's why so few marriages last these days when the ages are so young when they marry. Give yourself the freedom to decide who is going to be right for you.Breaking up always hurts one or both involved. So stay free and date who you want. Enjoy your youth.
2007-03-25 16:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong to carry on with the first guy if you prefer the second guy. If you are going to make a move on guy 2 then make sure you finish with guy 1 first. Don't use guy 1 as a back up if guy 2 doesn't work out, he is obviously not right for you. Good Luck
2007-03-25 16:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Julian K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and some of my best friends are younger than me. Age really shouldn't be a barrier for true friendship/relationship (except for the obvious).
But tell him you think he is being immature in your relationship, but don't throw it around that you like this new guy. See if he changes, if he doesn't, just tell him its not working out, that he doesn't know how to treat you yet. Just tell him to call you when he grows a few pubes. (if you know what I mean)
2007-03-25 16:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is ok to like another guy. I dont think it is wrong to end a relationship with the guy you are with now. I mean that is life. You dont always stick with one person, you have to try to go out with other people.
Just let go of the guy you are with now and go out with the new guy that you have feelings for.
P.S.
If you dont have any feelings for the new guy at all, stick with the old one. But still GO FOR THE NEW GUY!!!!
2007-03-25 16:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's usually why people break up..cause they dig on someone else. It'll most probably hurt the 15 year old's feelings and he'll be sad and whatnot, but that just comes with the deal..
And P.S. to that one person: 15 is a few years after adolescence, FYI
2007-03-25 16:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, people grow apart, especially when they have an age difference. I think that if you have any mixed feelings about it than you should go for the other guy because like I said, people break up, it is normal and everyone does it once in a while.
2007-03-25 16:51:02 · answer #11 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋