There's this guy I like. I always have to do the approaching because he's shy. I'm wondering what I could tlak about with him besides ANYTHING. Because somehow, I always blank out whenever I'm around him and end up not talking because I don't know what to say.
and!
i want him to feel as if i confide in him and make him feel comfortable around me.
HOW do i do that?
2007-03-25 16:32:08 · 3 answers · asked by marisssssssa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all does he know you like him?
It's sometimes a good idea to tell people you like them when you do because if he/she is shy, he/she might have liked you but didn't want to say it first. So you should tell him you like him, if he's not interested, smack him (lol jk), but you should try to show him your cool side. Try to go on a date, be the woman in charge in the this relationship for the start. If he still isn't into it, then you cant force him to like you. True story. Good luck and remember, no pain no gain.
2007-03-25 16:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to do that?
Think of it you will always be the one making/taking the initiative in your relationship. Dont you want a guy that that wants you and has the marbles to make it known?
If it does work out, you'll be the one with the ambition and with all of the decision-making to do in your relationship, believe me you'll get really exhausted and frustrated after a while and want to just scream- get off your butt and do something, anything!!
seriously though- really assess what you need from a guy in a relationship-
all the best!!
2007-03-25 16:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dziner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he likes. Take notes and use the Internet to learn about the subject. Ask him to teach you or explain his hobby. Guys like to feel as if they're helping someone when they are learned on the subject.
2007-03-25 16:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by James M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋