We spent yesterday together and we bonded at the end of the day, he waited with me for my train to arrive and he ended up cuddling up to me and holding hands.
The thing is he's really shy and we never openly expressed any feelings to how we feel about each other and didnt talk about it on msn, it's much different in reality.
I'd like to ask him to be my boyfriend but im afraid of being rejected..and im so confused..i like him and im sure he probably likes me...but i dont know?
I need help.
Thankyou.
2007-03-25 16:29:06 · 14 answers · asked by Nick 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See, the boyfriend and girlfriend thing, you just gotta kinda let that play itself out some... Keep seeing him and y'all do whatever right, so then maybe once you've kissed a few times maybe you've gone out a few times, then you ask like so:
'so do you think other people see us as like boyfriend and girlfriend?'
And take it from there, you may have to pause for a bit to reflect on his answer, careful reading between the lines might help.
2007-03-25 16:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by netthiefx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on a date and see how things go from there. If you dont make a move and this guy is shy you are always going to wonder what if. So save yourself wonder and take a chance. After all, life is about taking risks :) Good luck
2007-03-25 16:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Aj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't ask him. It could ruin the relationship you might already have with him. Sometimes taking the chance isn't really worth it. Just keep doing whatever you're doing and let it run it's course or talk to him more, eventually he might get interested.
2016-03-29 05:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys can be really secret about who they like. He probably feels the exact same way you feel about him. He is too nervous to ask you out because of the fear of rejection...let him know that you really do like him, invite him to partys, movies, or just to take a walk or hang out.
Good Luck!
2007-03-25 16:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by hi :]] 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just ask him. You guys obviously have some chemistry. If he says no....well he says no...it happens. Rejection hurts, but it happens. If it doesn't work out, you can always just try being freinds for a while a see if anything happens from there
2007-03-25 16:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try opening your mouth and telling him..... you wont get anywhere by keeping quiet and taking no chances...if you tell him you are interested in him and he tells you he isnt interested you, than you saved yourself a lot of time and let down.... being passive on these kind things will often make you miss out on opportunities... he could meet someone else tomorrow, and like her, and start dating her.... and where would you be? kicking yourself for never saying something.... talk to him.... good luck
2007-03-25 16:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
taking risk in life r important but in love they r everything to b w/ the person u love go take a chance and ask him out or to b Ur bf
2007-03-25 16:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Princess♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have more dates. Don't give it up. If it works out after awhile then ask him..
2007-03-25 16:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by James M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're never gonna get anywhere telling him you like him. Guys like to chase the girls, as old as THAT tradition is. >:(
2007-03-25 16:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on, how do you know if you didn't try? Being rejected is normal... Everyone experienced it....
2007-03-25 16:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋