I work with this guy whose drop dead gorgeous, but I know he's the worst type to be involved with (you know, the heart-breaker, just wanna use you and then leave you). But I can't get him out of my mind. Any suggestions or thoughts on this?
2007-03-25 16:28:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're so hesitant, you will put yourself in a position to get burned. Since you know all of this, why waste time daydreaming about him, unless you really intend to play? Furthermore, you work with him so if things don't work out, could you face him every day? What about other people he may have been involved with at work? Can you handle the gossip that might follow? You are playing with fire.
2007-03-25 16:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....You are tellin' me....You don't wanna go with him..But you like him a little....hmm...JUST LEAVE EM'......Ask him how much gurlfriends he had.......If he says between 2-5 thats a good number.....anywhere beyond the number 10 is BAD...That means he doesn't care about you at all....HES JUST A PLAYER.......But you might never know.......Second thought he might not tell you the truth...WOW you really never know....
Ok......What kind of man are you looking for in your life....
You should go to a dating service thingy......Once you find a man you like, that will definitely get this man off your mind... ALSO you are gonna get a man you like...
LAST THOUGHT......You don't wanna be with this man hes only gonna PROBABLY use you .....Then you might end up with a BROKEN HEART! A broken heart is no good.....SO just don't mess with this guy......! Hope i help!!!!!!
2007-03-25 23:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. Whats wrong with you? If you know he's no good and you still want him, then there is something seriously wrong with you.
And playa's dont deserve to be turned down nicely.
2007-03-25 23:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought you should create...imagine falling in love and him not catching your ***! That should be enough, unless you feel you deserve a player! Get a grip or get a broken heart!
2007-03-25 23:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my bf's words he is a d***swinger. BEWARE ! BEWARE !
Change jobs. Do whatever you have to do to keep your sanity and your purity. Focus on God, ask him for help. Tell yourself ten times a day " If I go with( ) he will use me and drop me." Talk to others about it and tell him that you know he is a playa and will he please leave you alone.
2007-03-25 23:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he asked you out?
If so, just tell him you think he's attractive but you're not dating right now. If he changes his ways later, you'll still have a shot.
2007-03-25 23:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Just do it with him. Who cares about consequences, just take it like a man.
2007-03-25 23:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why nicely his a playa..teach him a lesson..let him have a taste of his own poison
2007-03-25 23:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try someone u cn trust.....dats da way u cn get him out of ur mind.
2007-03-25 23:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut his game down. just laugh in his face and say "GAME OVER SUCKA!"
2007-03-25 23:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by SRSLY?! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋