sad to say... but in movies when a woman gets raped by a man... it sorta turns me on. Also with rough sex. so basically, rape sorta turns me on.
2007-03-25 16:27:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
different strokes for different folks
you cant help what turns you on. i've listened to enough late night sex-related-doctor radio shows. its normal
2007-03-25 16:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was raped so those scenes disturb me and I usually turn the movie off at the point (this being why I no longer watch scary movies) I can see how rough sex or the thought of being dominating can be a turn on but you should not be turned on by a rape scene in a movie which is not put in for pleasure purposes. they place these in movies to make you angry or saddened for the person. I think you should try to keep your head out of the gutters when watching these types of movies and realize that there are real people going through these things and they are not fun or enjoyable in any way!!!
2007-03-25 16:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by MelC 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Um, what's normal? Well, I'd be a little worried if watching any kind of sex didn't turn u on, rough or not. It sure does for me, specially when I haven't had it for a while, lol. (I love rough sex, don't u? But not rape though, that's going too far). Don't worry, ur completely normal.
2007-03-25 16:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just the idea of rough sex turns your on and on tv you only really see it if somebody is getting raped. But rough sex is fine, nothing gross about it at all.
2007-03-25 16:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm Interesting.. have you ever been raped before??
Fantasy has a major play in a lot of things.. Personally I like rough sex and being very agressinve.. Sme girls dont like that though, so it depends on the person..
Maybe one thing you should try is get with someone you trust.. and have them rip off your clothes and be really agressive with you.. Think of it as a form of role playing.
2007-03-25 16:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always organize with a guy you know well and have him have surprise sex on you. That's kind of like rape. Also, you're probably just into the whole rough kink play thing and not rape itself.
2007-03-25 16:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal, lots of women like the feeling of being dominated by a strong male... it also happens a lot in nature.
I don't condone either, but there is a difference between forced sex, and violent rape. If it's just the former that turns you on I'd day that's normal, but if you get turned on by punches, beatings and stuff like that, that's gross.
2007-03-25 16:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually very normal to be turned on by stuff like that - a lot of women, many who won't admit it, are drawn to things like that. No worries, I know that it seems like it's the rape that gets you going but you're actually turned on by the domination not the actual rape.
2007-03-25 16:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by pipesean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not so much watching a full rape, but the attention and action of it, and part of you thinking that its wrong. Mainstream movies even make a potential rape scene seem so sensual more so than violent. You like your partner to be agressive, you like to feel everypart of it and have the whole experience. I like it too. I like to have my hair pulled and be smacked and bitten. It makes your whole body feel alive. Better than just being a jellyfish (ie lying on your back legs spread and hopin that its good) I could think of nothing worse than being bored in bed.
2007-03-25 16:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rough sex isn't rape..its consensual...and i don't think your gross..people just get turned on and prefer different things such as sadism and masochism. so with the rough sex your just visualizing how forceful the action is and not the actual raping of a person. that's just what i think.
2007-03-25 16:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by shellygrrlrox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once dated a nice little lady that worked Monday - Friday in office, she was sweet as could be but on the week ends she had this thing about whips & chains plus handcuffs which was fine but there is lines that shouldn't be crossed to have fun with boyfriends but find out how far they are willing to go and stop there. Have nice day.
2007-03-25 16:32:27 · answer #11 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋