I AM SO MAD, please read about parents....?

Question

I asked my dad for a new car and he said if I don't pull my grades up this semester he won't give it to me! I mean, I've been getting B's and how can I be expected to drive a Mustang when all my friends drive BMW's and Mercedes Benz! He is being so abusive and is making me the loser of the school!!!!! I hate my parents!!!! He has enough money because he is a doctor and gets my mom anything she wants. My dad is such a LOSER!!! HELP!

And no answers like I'm a spoiled rich girl because SO WHAT if I am. If my father has the money he should be spending it on me and not MY MOM!!!!!

OMG people! You should stop being rude! OK my dad makes a lot of money and I am his only child. Why shouldn't he have the JOY of spending it on me!? and I AM going to make something of myself. I am going to college and plan to go to law school. But if you have the money, why not spend it! I mean, like, how many diamonds does my mom really NEED!!!!

Answer 1

I seriously hope that no teenager with real problems gets subjected to reading this rant. There are kids out there who are being abused and molested, they have a real reason to be mad.

Answer 2

Wow...you are amazing. Sounds like you are a very materialist girl who doesn't have a clue as to the real meaning of life. I feel sorry for your parents having a child such as you. Just because he won't buy you a BMW or Benz you think he's being abusive???? What the hell would you do if he beat you with a belt? Now THAT's abuse! If I were your dad I'd buy you a $300 1979 Chevrolet Chevette (look it up on Google) and REALLY give you something to be embarrassed about (no offense meant to those who may read this if you really drive a Chevette)! And, one last thing. If you are seriously embarrassed of your Mustang, I'll take it! They are all classics!!!!

Answer 3

Like, oh my GOD, you're dad is sooooo mean! All these other people R just dum. Like, u no, like? Like? Ur mom shouldn't get nothing cause your his angel!!!11!!

Do you honestly think you're going to get to law school if you can't even handle getting more than Bs in high school? High school is nothing more than a matter of applying yourself, for like half an hour a day. If you cannot handle that, how do you expect you'll handle University courses?

You are a spoiled brat. Grow up. It's not so much that your dad spends a kazillion bucks on your whims - money is money and some people have it - it's that you're demanding something and he's asking for something reasonable in return and you're pitching a gimme-gimme fit.

Makes me think you're a troll, come to think of it. Because that is just so so so beyond belief.

If it's for real ... not only should you be ashamed of yourself, your dad should be ashamed of himself for raising such a spoiled airhead. I suppose I should say it's not your fault, but if you're old enough to take the responsibility of driving, you're old enough to figure out the rest of life.

Your dad should cut your allowance to zilch until you pick up your a** and start getting the grades to get where you want. He's not doing you any favours.

(by the way, I ride a BIKE to and from WORK, rain, snow, or sun)

Answer 4

Its your dads money and he has the right to spend it on whomever he wants to. I wish I had a Mustang when I was young. My first car was a crappy little 91 Cavalier that I paid for. And the frame rusted out after a year of driving it. My second car (the one I still drive) is an 02 Cavalier that I also paid for (I'm still making payments on it actually). And thats getting pretty crappy too. How is your father being abusive? Because he wont buy you a car? Please. If you think hes being abusive call the cops and see how long they laugh at you. There's more to life than cars and money. Grow up, get an education, and get out there in the real world. Maybe being out there without daddy to protect you will smarten you up because obviously you cant see that you are a spoiled rich girl and nobody likes a brat. Try thanking your dad for all the hard work he has done to make sure he can provide for his family. Would you like it better if you were poor and had to walk or take the bus to school? Or if you had to get a job at the age of 14 (like I did) so you can buy things for yourself? My parents work their a$$es off and have always made sure we had food and clothes to wear. But before i was able to get a job we went to school in hand me downs and department store shoes. And i still love my parents because they were always there for me and loved me. Maybe some people saw me as a loser but you know what? I DIDNT CARE! If they didnt like me just because I didnt have a lot of money they could kiss my as s. If your friends think you're a loser because you dont drive a ridiculously expensive car maybe you should make some new friends that like you for who you are instead of friends that like you because you have a rich daddy.

Answer 5

Number 1: There are too many poor children out there being molested, underfed, tortured, and living worse than animals for you to be calling your situation "abusive".

Number 2: The lack of a car is the least aspect making you a loser.

Number 3: Your whole post is a rude slap in the face to humanity.

Number 4: The only reason you are going to law school to make something of yourself is because of your father's money paying for your tuition.

I usually wouldn't be so harsh with a child, but I think this situation calls for a healthy kick-in-the-butt of reality. How some (not all) rich kids get to be so delusional, I will never understand. When it all comes down to it, both the rich and poor will die, and neither God or fate or worms are gonna care if you drove a mustang or a bmw in school.

Answer 6

you need to shut up you spoiled brat so what a mustang is a nice car you should be grateful you got that if i was your parents i wouldn't buy you anything. there are a lot of kids that would kill for a car like that not everybody can have what they want that's a part of life so grow up if your this immature i wouldn't buy you a car period. so what your mom get More than you she's your mom and your just a child get a job and buy your own if it's such a big deal. I'm not going to feel sorry for you, you don't deserve a new car, you ungrateful brat.

Answer 7

I think you need to learn how to appreciate your life and the people in your life. Dont take for granted the fact that you have parents that are supporting you, the fact that you live in a nice house, the fact that you can go to school and your only problems are trying to get good grades and worrying about not having the coolest car. Just wait until you are a 18 year old mother going to college full time and working because you dont have parents that can pay for everything, and yes that includes all your nice clothes and your fancy makup and your expensive jewelry. Im not suprised that you have the audacity to complain about things like that in a place where you should know that anyone could read this and actually get offended that the well off are so prude.
I hate that some people, myself included, have to work so hard and even then recieve nothing in return, when at the same time there are children like you running around crying to their daddies because their best friend got a 100,000$ party and a brand new car and they only got a 50,000$ party.

it just makes me sick.

Answer 8

Do you seriously expect to get any type of sympathy on here? If you Dad expects you to get better grades for a new car - why are you so upset about it. Just study harder and spend more time on your homework. It's not that difficult. People manage to study, do homework, attend school, work, and some even take care of their own children. If all you have to do is raise you B's to A's, then just do it. If you would like to know about an abusive father, why don't you consider the people that are really abused, they are beaten, raped, thrown out onto the streets, neglected, and so many more horrible things. Not having a car compared to your friends cars is NOT abuse, it's being blessed. Your Mom deserves nice things. She takes care of you, your house, and your dad. You should be happy that your dad loves your Mom and that your parents are even still together. Your Dad is NOT a loser, at least he takes care of you and loves you enough for him to want you to get good grades. Just look at what you have and consider what other people don't. You are very blessed to have everything that you have. I know it is hard to think that way as a teenager, but why don't you try. Have a great night and love you parents because they won't always be here. You'll regret everything negative thing you've said to them or about them - trust me.

Answer 9

You know some kids would do anything for that mustang you drive in fact my niece is 16 and is dying to get a mustang so I'm not going to tell you that you are just a spoiled rich girl but that you need to grow up and just be thankful that you have a car to drive and you re not walking to school or riding the bus some women out there even have families to take care of and no car to drive so they have to walk with their children or take the bus in the heat and cold so just grow up and be a more compassionate human being that would be nice

Answer 10

I'm not going to call you a spoiled rich girl, but take a few deep breaths and look at what you just wrote when you are calmer.

I'm just going to say this and you can take it however you want to, but here goes:
(a) your dad earns that money, right? As long as he is taking care of you with the necessities, he can spend the rest of his money on whoever or whatever (reasonably, of course, I'm not saying he should be buying drugs with it or anything) he wants. Right? And why do you say he should spend the money on you and NOT your mom. What's wrong with him buying your mom stuff? I say it's impressive they're even married considering the divorce rate nowdays.
(b) Your dad is NOT abusing you by not buying you a new car. He wants you to learn responsibility, maybe.
(c) Have you ever thought that maybe it's those other kids at school that are the spoiled rich kids and that it doesn't really matter what kind of car you drive and that the people that matter won't care. And those that care don't matter. As long as the car is safe, right?
(d) Hopefully you have more sense than this question made it seem like.

Answer 11

You're not a loser because you drive a Mustang. You're a loser because your attitude sucks and you're an obnoxious, whiny, ungrateful brat who expects to find symapthy and caring here or anywhere else besides your obnoxious, whiny, ungrateful brat friends. Oh, that's right, they won't talk to you because you drive a Mustang, so I guess you can also add friendless to your list of adjectives.

Your dad is a loser because he has raised such a spoiled rotten, ungrateful, horrid child who has no concept of real life or what it means to work for anything or be grateful. How can he even stand to live with you? You must be very unpleasant to be around, but he made you, so I guess he deserves whatever he gets. Unlike you.