theres this girl at school i really like but she's all popular so i can never get her alone. even if i did get her alone she would think i'm weird for talking to her because she doesn't know me. what do i do? what do i say?Help!!!
2007-03-25 15:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by lbj23d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to get her alone? All the best moves on a girl are done in front of others, believe it or not. The best way to go about it is to NOT show her your interested in her. Why? Because she probably knows that alot of guys are interested in her, and you would just be part of the crowd. But to show her that you aren't intimidated by her enough to talk to her in front of others tells her that you are different. I'll bet alot of guys she knows like her don't have the guts to talk to her in front of others. For you to talk to her without being alone will tell her that your different than the rest, and she will notice you for it. Plus all the other guys will think your cool because you did something they didn't have the guts to do. But don't go and be all overly nice to her, but instead treat her as an equal instead of worshipping her. Make her laugh, or better yet, make her friends laugh. Not by acting like a clown where they laugh AT you. But where your confident enough to where they are laughing at what you are telling them is funny. If you can do this, she will notice you. And don't make it look like you went out of your way to talk to them. You don't want to appear that your trying too hard. They will notice this and judge you by it. If you "accidentally" start talking to them and make them laugh, they will all remember you like, "Who was that guy? I wanna know!" because their interaction with you was fun.
Remember: when it comes to women (or girls in your case) its all about how much fun they have when they are around you that determines how much interest they have in you. You could be the best looking guy in school, but if your boring to be around, the girls will think your a dud. But if you have a dazzling personality, and girls have fun while being around you, you will do good!
2007-03-25 16:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off ask yourself is she is worth the effort and worth possibly embarassing yourself. Plus, if you went out on a date, it would only last for a couple months because teenagers have problems with commitment and have hormone issues and all that junk. But if you really like her... I suggest when you walk by her and her friends, you wave or smile or quickly say hi to let her know you exist. If she drops something pick it up for her. Eventually you'll end up having conversations all that kind of stuff. Just be casual and if you're the really nice person you seem, she'll like you.
2007-03-25 23:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by YoshiGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her when you see her in class. Even popular girls are just normal people. Trust me, I'm friends with lots of popular girls, they won't go "eww do i know you?" or something like that...unless they are really mean. So, just go for it, talk to her casually every once and a while, the you can get her alone. Hope ya get her
2007-03-25 23:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by GoGetEmTiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a simple smile in the hall. If she returns it, work up to a casual smile and hi, returns it, work up to a how's it goin'?, returns it with small talk, then keep working up to regular conversation. You have to start somewhere. Popular girls like to keep up images. If she's mean girl popular, forget her. If she's popular because she's a likable girl to everyone then you should have no problems. Good luck!
2007-03-25 22:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweep her off her feet. Laugh at all her jokes, ask her who was the cowboy who stole the stars for her eyes or something like that. Read books on how to flirt. Look up ways to flirt on the internet.
2007-03-25 22:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok .....i am a girl and just to let you no this might work. just say "hi" or "hello" once a week. dont do it too often because she will think that you are stalking her or going to ask her out RIGHT away. DONT do that. just say hi or wat ever in the hall way try to look at her but when she sees you staring, look away. and if she has IM, IM her to see you or just talk to you and ask her YOURself what she thinks about you. DO NOT let a friend do it. it won't work out that way. im telling you this because this happened to me last week. PLEASE take my advise and if you need more just IM me.
2007-03-25 22:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get her alone? Because you really like her...ok so you want to be her friend...you don't need to get her alone to be her friend. Be her friend is my answer to your next question.
2007-03-25 22:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Grow some stones.
2. Grab her bum.
Precaution: All emo make-up should be removed before attempting to talk to anyone normal!
Finally when she shoots you down.. go listen to "My Chemical Romance" and reapply all make-up.. be sure to smear properly to emulate your life hating mood.
2007-03-25 22:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sofa kings woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. you have nothing to loose. because if you ask her the worst she could say is no right but if you don't ask her you could miss out. so just go and do it.
2007-03-25 22:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by hugandkiss1200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww well try it
tlk to her ,you got nothing to loose
2007-03-25 22:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋