At frist we women wanted to have sex with the guy then after we have sex with the guy we start to feel like we maked a mistake bk. we sex with the guy.why do we keep on having sex with the guy If we feel bad about it? I really wanna know
2007-03-25 15:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are having sex for sex and there isn't anything else that is involved. It is not meaningful to you.
2007-03-25 15:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Nea'A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all i don't know who is "having sex with the guy"
much less who is feeling like we maked a mistake bk we sex with the guy.
i don't know about you, but the only thing that i did when i had sex with the guy was laugh afterwards. the guy is not to big in the pants if you know what i mean.
are we talking about the same guy?
by the way, do you get that red dotted line under the words that you misspelled? cause i did...
what does, 'when we some of us women and at fer words mean?
anybody?
2007-03-25 23:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some women just want to be wanted when their not in a serious relationship with someone and have strong sexual desires for a man and then afterward most realize that's all it is and know that they shouldn't be just settling for just sex with someone if it's not a serious relationship and begin to feel used and neglected from that which was only known as a sexual partner causing one to feel bad for even sleeping with them but continue because of the sexual desires and the need to be wanted for the moment.
2007-03-25 23:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society teaches us that if women sleep around with men or just a couple of men than we're sluts. Which is just totally wrong. So we always have that in the back of our heads. Plus we can be very self conscious so sometimes we never know if we were good enough or if he really liked us and all that which all leads to feeling bad. But we go back because we want to be cared for and feel accepted and while it's all happening that's exactly what we feel. It's a big catch 22. Totally unfair
2007-03-25 22:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol i like that 1st thing may be that you rushed into it to fast that is why you think that way and you may not be in love or u would not be calling it sex that is something u do if no love is with it and the answer 2 your 2nd question is that you may think that if u stop having sex with him he may go other places and the truth that just may go that way i don't know how old you are but let me say one thing your true answer will come with age and time i think you should walk away from him and give the sex thing a rest no matter your age
good luck to u
2007-04-02 22:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like your hanging with the wrong guys. There is more to life than just sex. And if you ever feel bad about doing any thing it is wrong. don't do it. ANYTHING the person you have sex with should be the one your world go round, the one you live for, the one you would die for, your everything.
2007-04-02 20:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she feel's bad it's because she gave it up to easy. A women should save it for Marriage. Also they know the guy is gonna be talking about her and selling sh**. to all his friend's now. JUST SAY NO
2007-04-02 20:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u feel like u made a mistake, u keep doing it hopeing that eventually u'll realize that its not wrong...but i'll tell u, it doesn't quiet work that way...it'll always seem wrong. Unless it's with the one man u r truely in love with.
2007-03-25 22:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases we fill that weve just been used because some where in our head we think or no that it wont go far but we do it again because were either in denile or it was just so fun that were like what the hay once more couldnt hurt
2007-03-25 22:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ty-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myb ur just horny, in my case i never attempt to go 1 night stand coz i only offer myself to the one i love. i dont like sex, i want makelove, if u have discipline, love of yourself and body you cna control even how demonic temptations are they. have faith in God and think your body and *** as sacred.
2007-04-02 22:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by babybossy07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋