I am 14 years old and i never had a girlfriend or ever kissed a girl for that matter! I am not smooth with the ladies most of them that know me dont like me lol. I get nervous around girls and i guess you could say i run from them literally! Can you give me some tips?
2007-03-25 15:44:58 · 26 answers · asked by Melina's #1 Fan! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get confidence. Usually being afraid of girls is caused by insecurity, and lack of CONFIDENCE. Honestly man get more social with girls, just remember no-one is judging you when they look at you. Also make a good 1st impression with confidence. Girls love confidence in guys,its a big turn on. So yeah get more social. Being social gets confidence, confidence gets girls! To get social just hang with friends/girls more often. The more you do that the more social you get. Do this at least twice a week (Saturdays, and Fridays). Good luck homie.
2007-03-25 15:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Random Hero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, you are only 14, you don't need to start dating so young. Focus on school first. Dating will come along later. Being smooth is not the right way for every girl; in fact if you become too smooth, many young women, and adult women as well, feel like you have had too much experience, and may just be trying to go through as many women as possible. Ask this question again in a few years.
2007-03-25 15:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I am a girl 12 yrs, so, I know what is best. So here R some tips!!
1. Always be yourself, girls don't like it when you try to be somebody else.
2. Don't be all full of yourself ( that is how my past boyfriend lost me ).
3. Girls like to share their feelings, so don't talk to much.
4. Last but not least, let a relationship grow on its own. Don't rush anything.
I hope these will help. If you ever get turned down by a girl, don't feel stupid. It's not the end it is just the beginning. If you have more problems, just post it and I will answer. Good luck!!
2007-03-25 16:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Muffin ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a 14 year old so I hope I can help. Girls like confidence. Don't let her know your about to run away. Buck up and show her you feel like you deserve to be noticed. Be yourself, but like yourself and it will show. Before you worry about kissing, start on the self confidence and the rest will follow. And remember, if you ask a girl out, the worst thing she can say is no. It won't kill you. Just be positive.
2007-03-25 15:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by stacycarps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tip 1
take a deep breath before u think about going up and talking to a female
tip 2
walk up to her with confadenice and tell her ur name and then complament her on her eyes tell her hair smalls good conpare it to a furit
tip 3
find out what she is into
tip 4
listen to what she says and reply when she ask u a question
tip 5
take your time on kissing her
tip 6
take her out to a place that she would like to go to like the movies or out for dinner
tip 7
meet her parents let them get a feel of you find out what your about
that will work most of the time. some females are different. some will first come up to you and start talking to you.
2007-03-25 15:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by mz.koffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 so I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just be yourself and be open. Try to do something that makes them smile or laugh. Try to find something that you have in common and talk about that too. I really wouldn't stress about it too much at your age. Just go with the flow, relax and have fun! You'll have plenty of time to be 'smooth' with the ladies as you get older.
2007-03-25 15:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by champagnepowder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awkward at that age (14)..but just be yourself. Everyone has to start somewhere right? Ask a girl out to go to a movie, or skating...when out , ask things like what their fav. movies are(comedy, scary, thrillers..) what kind of music shes into...what her fav. thing to do is?? Get to know each other more. Never just assume you can kiss her or hug her etc........Better to be safe than sorry and ask, "would you mind if i put my arm around you?" or "do you want to hold hands?" Don't smother her but be a gentleman* GoodLuck*
2007-03-25 15:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first girlfriend or kiss a girl until I was 14. And then I didn't have another girlfriend or kiss one for 6 years because they p!ssed me off. Your time will come.
2007-03-25 15:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by Corran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a 14 year old girl and i have had some bfs and its hard it really is, you should play it smooth. and try not to make it noticeable that you are scared chicks like boys who help them!! just relax lol i hope that i have helped you alot just play it smooth and cool! x o x o
2007-03-25 15:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u are just 14 give your self time. trust me 14 year old girls are just giggly things. hair nails clothes and makeup are all they know. but avoid those corny pick up lines cause u might get a good laugh as its going to sound very well corny. seriously be your self if no one can like that then they arent worth no bodies worth changing for
2007-03-25 15:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋