Is sex better with someone you ONLY lust for, or with someone you LOVE ? ( can't wait to get the responses to this one ! )
2007-03-25 15:40:00 · 22 answers · asked by Stevie D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the case of lust... sex is like a drug... its exciting, fun, makes you feel great and gives you a chance to live out what ever fantasies you might have toward that person without worrying about any type of commitment (being that this is what you want)... but like i said, its like a drug... a temporary fix... its fun... but short lived...
In the case of love... sex is more intimate, theres a certain degree of excitement in knowing that you can keep on enjoying this... there is a trust in knowing that you can rely on your partner to express their sexual desires and needs in order to please them more...
someone mentioned earlier that sex with someone you love could be boring... but if you really love each other, you will do what ever it takes to make the other one happy, and that includes sexually...
lust full sex can be fun... but most people get tired of it after a while... they get tired of just a temporary fix... and want something more fulfilling, which would be love...
I think you can see which way my opinion leans on this one..
2007-04-02 11:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st the definition of Lust usually intense or unbridled sexual desire; an intense longing : CRAVING! How can sex like this not be good or better than; definition Love attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers, affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. I guess what all this means is Love and Sex is heartfelt, long lasting, it is a feeling that affects, heart, soul and mind. Lust is mostly just a superficial physical gratification similiar to smoking, or eating chocolate. Everyone has their preference, I choose Love.......But it ain't bad to mix in a little lust every now and again.
2007-03-26 06:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both, you can have a hot, heavy, hair pulling, fulfilling sex rage for someone you think is totally hot and don't want commit yourself to which could be lust, but when you love someone the emotions that come out make you want to cry, scream in pleasure, never stop, tell them you love them, hold them tight within the moment and fall asleep only awaiting their gently kisses in the morning on your shoulder. I prefer love!
2007-04-02 13:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely better with someone you love. You can never have that deep intimate connection with someone you just lust for. It might be the best for the moment but once you love someone there's not getting better from anyone!!
2007-03-25 15:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hands down...gota be love. Although the lust can be good, there aint nothing like the feeling of making sweet love with someone you really care for. Looking into each others eyes, talking dirty! Yeah, I'd have to say LOVE
2007-04-02 15:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Shareen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- Sex with someone you love deeply can be very boring, believe me.
- Never had sex with "lust only" - I just did not even want that.
- Love and Lust combo is the greatest feeling in the world... feels like you are literally dreaming, not in reality, like in an altered state of consciousness.
2007-03-25 15:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to determine lust from love being that it could be true love and yes someone you feel you truly care can be loved better.
2007-03-25 15:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone you love, but if sex only someone you lust for, it means no relationship and it won't have a happy ending
2007-03-25 15:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lust if you want a one night stand and don't want a meaningful relationship, of coarse you may end up getting involved with a fatal attraction.
2007-03-25 15:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont really know if you can say one is better than the other.
Sex should always be great
Lust is a strong motivator and can mean some intense orgasms
So can love
Neither can assure mutual orgasms but love makes it easier.
And mutual orgasms are very intense
2007-04-02 12:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋