Okay, So I just got a girlfriend and she is sweet, smart, attractive pretty much the best thing any guy could ask for. So now here is the bad part when I call her or she calls me. We either have akward silence or akward conversations about things I read on the internet in a desperate attempt to make a conversation. So I don't know what I am suppose to do. All I know is that if I keep this up I might be single again. If you know what I mean...
2007-03-25 15:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by Confussed for you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. If she ends up leaving you in the dust...she wasn't the one for you.
Talk about what her interests are...what kind of sports does she like, what kind of music she likes...what kinf of movies...that will get you both started on learning something more about each other.
Try to hook up with her to go skating or a movie..perhaps a few of your friends along with a few of her friends can do something fun next weekend.
It can be awkward at times when you both don't know what to talk about. Try to get over your shyness...and talk about anything.
GOODLUCK*
2007-03-25 15:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the second most beautiful girl in my college and it was alot of fun but if there is no chemistry you need to move on. (I was with the nerdy group so I dated so real losers).The most beautiful girl in my college had the personality of a dead fish. Looks really don't matter . Sometimes beauty can even be a curse.
2007-03-25 23:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all kids go through that, I can remember sitting on the other end of a phone when I was a kid, we would sit for hours listen to each other breathe. you aren't there to entertain her. she just likes being close to you, don't worry about it. talk about music or play her songs over the phone. make up some word games to play on the phone.
2007-03-25 22:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just always treat her good. The more time you two spend together the more comfortable you will be around each other. Just be yourself.
2007-03-25 22:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. yeah i know wat you mean!!! i was in the same situation. but you know what? you just needa be yourself, cuz to lie to that person you have would be a waste of time. just be yourself and see where that leads. if it doesnt work out, then she aint the one for you.
2007-03-25 22:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something you have in common and talk about that.. just try to get to know her better
2007-03-25 22:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋