If you gave everything to this person and they just forgot about you in a couple of hours, and months later you still can’t eat, sleep, or have a relation ship with somebody? Or if you know you need to let them go and you’ve tried with all of your heart because you know if you don’t you will get your heart broken again?
2007-03-25 15:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by Jordan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie,first you need to pick up the pieces of your heart and your life and slowly piece them back together.Start living for YOU!Get together for a friends night out,and spend time with them and reminisce.Do things you never had the chance to do,but always wanted to.Mourn the loss of your lost love.You loved this person,you cannot just forget them over night.Also,do not jump into another relationship.Later down the road,you will realise this person was merely a rebound,and end up getting hurt again.Not only will you be hurt,but so will your partner.Rebounds are basicly,you trying to find what you had and replace it.Finally,You also must realise time heals all.It may not be hours,days,or even weeks.However,time will eventually heal the wound and you will be able to move on.At this point in time,i understand that it almost seems impossible,and seems as if the pain is never ending.Although,it is true that time heals all.Just allow yourself to mourn,surround yourself with friends,and keep occupied.Eventually you will come to realisation that,if they couldnt love you like you needed to be loved,they werent worth it anyway.Good luck hun,and have a good night! I know its hard,keep your chin up and your head held high!
2007-03-25 15:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tough. Maybe the problem is in the first line you wrote. You gave EVERYTHING to someone. That person sounds selfish and not mature enough for a relationship. Not everyone is like that so get out there with friends, have fun and keep yourself and your mind busy so you won't be thinking about the past. Trust me, it will get easier as time goes by even if it doesn't seem that way now. Throw yourself into a project, join a club that interests you, volunteer. Just do something. You'll meet new people who share an interest of yours. Good luck, keep your chin up.
2007-03-25 15:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately "Love" can suck at the best of times. You're going through this heartache as you must have felt "she was the one"....but just remember..Not all women are the same! You have to try to pick yourself up and move on with your life. I know it's a hard thing to do and much easier to say...but You Can* Do This~
Go on out with friends..or get a part time job at night that keeps you occupied. Time will heal your broken heart...but you just have to move on. If this person you find so appealing just forgets about you within a few hours...she's definately not the one for you. When you least expect it...you'll be falling in love all over again, looking back to this time right now , where you feel you will never see happiness again nor will you find another woman to love and to love you back for "Who you are"...
But trust me...it will happen~ For now..just keep busy and try your best to put this relationship to rest. Write a letter about how you're feeling...be honest with yourself......you don't have to mail this letter to her or even give it to her..but it will help you feel like you have somewhat of a "closure" for you to be able to move on. Goodluck*
2007-03-25 15:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you know you need to let them go.
I'd say it's time to focus on YOU. Join a class or club that does something your really enjoy, spend lots of time with people who support you unconditionally. Pursue your own interests and ACTIVELY AVOID THINKING ABOUT THIS PERSON. Feeling immediately follows thought, so if you think about this person it will bring up feelings for you.
Find as many ways as you can to redirect your attention and keep yourself busy. The harder and longer you do this, the easier it will get, but it does take discipiline. You will change your thought patterns and habits and in about 10-12 weeks you will find you have your life back.
Best wishes!
2007-03-25 15:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he continues to be gaining understanding of and having a not undemanding time. possibly he's doing that to dodge temptation? wait and see, bypass away or the two. No you're actually not incorrect for desiring affection above that which eh might coach to others, yet in basic terms keep in mind that he's not your fiance or husband, so he does not inevitably owe that to you. i might say he owes you a precedence concerning his time and have confidence nevertheless. If he enjoyed you comparable to anybody else, he does not have asked you to be his female pal. he's have confidence attempting to be certain the spectacular stability, not snub you. you ought to tell him what's on your techniques. adult adult males don't love it while we "assume them to know what we are thinking." =)
2016-10-19 22:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through same thing,my wife of 14 yrs divorced me with no reason..says she doesnt love me any more.i stilllove her and cant stop. some how ill get her back though the help of God.i read a book that said that as long as she is still attractive to you you can work things out..so get in shape and pray
2007-03-25 15:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ralph G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go outside her bedroom window, around midnight. Bring a rose, and a boom box, and her favorite song. Start playing this, and toss chocolate heart kisses at her window. Make sure she is home first!!! Then try talking to her!!
Good Luck!!! :) :(
2007-03-25 15:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like any thing else, you have to let your heart heal and move on. You might not know it now, but your situation just might be "an answer pray."
2007-03-25 15:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nea'A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with that person you became one with that person so the soultie needs to broken. Email that prayer request to rhema.org. Breaking the soultie will make it easier to move on becuase you will stop wondering what that person is up to.
2007-03-25 15:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept your lost and go on. I know that may be easier said then done. When we love someone we thing that we are to be love back. Not expecting rejection. We are to love everyone in Christ but love is different.
2007-03-25 15:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋