I am only 36
2007-03-25 15:24:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A watched pot never boils. Stop looking so hard and concentrate on enjoying your life. Chances are you'll find one of these fellas you speak of when you least expect it. Plus- what's more attractive to a man- a woman on the hunt for a man / husband or a happy woman who enjoys her life? I know which one I'd be more inclined to go and speak to...
Good luck.
2007-03-25 16:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Phil K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women dont really want an honest and good hearted man.
They say they want that in a man, but then when push comes to shove they always run to the same jerks that have always burned them.
Women are programmed to love dick heads. They think because a guy is nice, that he wont be wild or fun. When instead they should be thinking this guy is nice, he wont beat me or get me pregnant and disappear.
Women dont think logically.
Look Im only 23 but Ive already realized that great nice women that deserved to be treated well almost always go for the guys that they know will hurt them if only because they know exactly where things will end up.
And dont worry some of you 35-45 year old women are still smoking hot. And if youre not you atleast have some life experience in knowing what mean want, so get out there and go get some guys.
2007-03-25 15:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 36 also - have been a single mom of three boys (ages 16, 11 & 9) for the past 8 years. I had to go through a really tough school of hard knocks before I realized that I was attracting (and accepting) losers - finding myself attracted to the same old personalities (addictions, abuse, abandonment). It takes a lot of work to change the way you view these guys (and gals) and attract the RIGHT and HEALTHY guys (and gals). It took me a long time, but fate will bring the right person to you when you least expect it - when you have that opportunity, grab it as fast as you can and allow it to grow. I've managed to find someone totally unbelievable and completely opposite of what I used to date. Believe in it, and it'll happen.
2007-03-25 15:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by chuvila55 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 48
my 2nd wife is 34 and has 2 young children
she has had bad luck with men
because all men can be asses
yes even me
just remember men or women
no matter how good they look
and no matter how hot they are
someone somewhere is tired of putting
up with their CRAP
no one is perfect
you just have to put up with them
if you love them
if the relationship is ok 80% of the time
stick with it
you can live with an *** 20% of the time
and remember DONT marry for looks
you can change looks
but you cant fix STUPID
2007-03-25 17:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are not ALL married!
Have you considered becoming that which you seek? That is the way to attract an honest, good-hearted man, become an honest good-hearted woman.
Devote some of your free time to community service, I believe that is a good place to start.
2007-03-25 15:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we're not all married. i'm sure you women hear all sorts of lines from guys about how they are God's gift to you and how great they are, etc. then even if they dont start being abusive towards you, they take you for granted or ignore you all together. so you keep going for the jerks thinking at least you know up front what you are getting. when you meet someone you think seems nice, you think they are putting on an act to sucker you in, or that they will be boring or something. it's easy to be skeptical, but some of us are genuinely nice and would like to have someone to care for and be cared for by. i've quite badly been taken advantage of and used before but i havent let that cloud my hopes for the right one to come along. i look at the experiences as a way to refine what i want in a potential relationship, instead of focusing on all the negative aspects of what i've been through and appreciate the fact that i was able to dig my way out of a hole and remain in good spirits. like everything else in life, dating and relationships depend on your outlook on life, how you treat others, and most importantly, being happy with yourself and realizing you deserve happiness.
2007-03-25 16:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are naturally nervous and cautious when it comes to meeting other people. I think its hard to trust anyone unless you really get to know them well enough. Its always easier finding the negatives in a person, rather than the positives..
Good hearted men are out there!! Hey im one of them.
2007-03-25 15:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am married. Hey, don't give me a thumbs down yet! I know guys that are asking the same question, it just seems that they haven't met you and you haven't met them. Don't give up hope, they're out there, and you are only 36!
2007-03-25 15:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by Isaac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times it's because honest and good hearted isn't necessarily 6' tall and 210...a lot of women overlook a lot of guys for this reason and don't have a clue what they're missing
2007-03-25 15:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by imadumas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha, I have the same question. I think that the honest, good men of the world end up being taken advantage of by b!tches and then turn into dogs towards women. I know a good guy who has turned his back to the dating world based on his past relationships & it sucks for me!
2007-03-25 15:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by miac84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋