Heres my situation, I've been dating a girl for two years on and off, after that, we broke up and hardly talked. A few days later she got a new boyfriend who she says she feels as strong as she does with him as she did with me for those 2 years. I don't really feel like standing on the side lines watching her with another guy, I have a very short temper and might just go after her new boyfriend. To make sure I don't interfear or hurt someone (Or vise versa) I faked my own death. Am I just being selfish, or is it better then trying to break them up?
2007-03-25 15:15:37 · 11 answers · asked by Nerein N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm you seem very strange. Instead of asking and getting poeples opinons on yahoo answers, go talk to a professional.
QUICK, cause i think something is is broken in ur head lol
2007-03-25 15:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by sarah s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU FAKED YOUR OWN DEATH????? Are you totally insane? You know, unless you are some rich --- or she is, then you are totally insane for trying to do that. What about jobs, you will still be in the social security system, da... WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? and yes i am yelling at you for that.... Get a grip on yourself. Two years is not really that long. I just got out of a 4 and a half year relationship and went into another relationship right away. It is not always wrong. I hope your legal situations are not upon you yet, but I suggest turning yourself into the nearest police station to re-envoke your spirit. You know what I mean. You can't hide or play dead for long dude.... And get into Anger Management Classes too. I think that will help tremendously..... Good Luck.... By the way, It won't break them up......and You should just go on with your life dude..... take care!
2007-03-25 22:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by barb b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say faking your own death will do the trick,
but while u r faking, can u kind of accidentally do it for real?
just kiddin!!
she is moving on, just accept it and do the same. if you are not ready for dating dating, then just ask girls out.
1- it will make you feel good to have the attention of another female (good for your ego)
2- if you by coincidence end up in the same area that she is, trust me, she is going to feel that one, that is going to be (good for your ego to the 2nd power)
3- you may discover that you are into the new girl thing and not too interested in her and her bo.
if you are meant to be together, life will bring you together. don't rush things, and don't stand in the way of anyone. don't take it out on the bo. he has nothing to do with it. he is just a guy that she chose who cares for her obviously because she is a great person, i mean she has you getting advice about what to do.
don't try to break them up. karma can come back and rip your peaches off (if you know what i mean).
sometimes, when you really cared for someone and they are gone, especially when you still have to see them on the regular, the feelings tend to stick a bit longer. but the truth is that if she is with someone else, you should get on and do the same.
for your sake.
ps. i'm 40 but i look 20 and if you want to we can meet up later this week and mess with her head!!!
only thing you would have to come to PA and make arrangements for the sitter and all.
just kiddin!
good luck, and go dating, there are a ton of cute girls out there that are waiting to be asked out.
2007-03-25 22:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's pretty stupid. If you faked your own death, how could she possibly date you after that? Your dead!!!. Yes, I'd say that your selfish. Move on, she apparently did. Besides, you may find that if you go after her new boyfriend, you might find that he has a bigger temper and kicks your A$$.
2007-03-25 22:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the f----? Boy there is something wrong with you. You have allowed this woman to control you. You shouldn't fake your won death or try to break them up. She doesn't want you. I would say move on, but I fearful for the next woman you love!
2007-03-25 22:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your breakup. I know it's emotionally hard to see your ex with someone new, but you'd have to move on, since your ex has clearly done that. It's best that you leave things be. The world is big and who knows, you will meet your "soulmate" in the near future.
My advice, move on with your life. "When a door closes, a window of opportunity opens."
2007-03-25 22:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Ghost 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
faking your own death is just rediculous. Did you know that ,depending on how far your so called death news went, you can get in trouble with the law. So you better come back from the deed....
2007-03-25 22:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you the truth but yes, you are selfish. Life is worth much more than yr ex! She's moved on... and so should you!
2007-03-25 22:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are bieng selfish, if you really love her, you'll just leave her alone if she is really happy now, plus faking your death will get you numerous criminal and civil violations charges.
2007-03-25 22:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Endurance over speed, me over u! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Your selfish. And a little screwy.
2007-03-25 22:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by bittersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋