We have been friends or whole lives, more as a connection to family. our families had dinner and we had a great talkfor an hour and at first she seemed a little nervous around me(looking at the floor, twiddling, ect.)but, after a while we both calmed down. We didn't hang out for a while until just a few months ago when there was a party at my house and she came. We talked again for two hours, she seemed like she had a good time. I invited her to a party one of my buddies was having, I was one of two people she knew there. I saw the fact that she showed up and stayed until 2am as some sort of sign. I then asked her to this formal dance dinner event as friends,she seemed to be interested again. Then about a week later i tried to meet up with her on the following weekends but she was busy with legit excuses that i could verify. Then i asked her to the movie for friday, she had plans that were legit again, i asked for saturday, she said no again but also said she was not makin excuses. ???
2007-03-25 15:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by dmoney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put the ball in her court. The next time you ask her out and she comes up with an excuse, ask her to tell you when she is available, and you'll be available. If she says that she isn't free anytime or makes other excuses, then I don't think that you stand a chance. You might also consider doing something in the day, instead of just at night. Like going to the mall, a movie in the afternoon, etc.
2007-03-25 15:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's always hard to tell, because you never know what a person is thinking. The possibilities are that either she's nervous because she likes you, and doesn't want to hang out for that reason; she actually is really busy; or she's found someone else. I don't think it's someone else, but it's still a possibility. Do you know any of her friends? Ask one of them. You can never be sure what's on a girls' mind.
2007-03-25 22:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh maybe she really did have plans or she likes u and was getting nervous about going on a date with u. As u said that u asked her to go with friends that one time but u didnt say that u said that the next. So...i think she likes u but if i were u i wouldnt make any moves ....yet
2007-03-25 22:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by s k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you notice that she or another girl is watching you constantly. plus if you hear from your friends that she is talking about you in a conversation. [it doesn't matter if she says bad things because i know a girl that does this and i know she likes my closest guy friend....its that easy to spot]. you will also get the feeling that she likes you if she is always hanging around you and keeps trying to talk to you about practicly anything. or when you talk to her she seems to be shy or that she is trying to avoid you. there are no set rules to how a girl or guy like you if there was our lives would be a lot easier i can tell you that right now.
2007-03-25 22:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she's somewhat interested at least. People do get busy, fact of life. Give it a bit more time and see what happens.
2007-03-25 22:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe she likes you but is holding back. for what reasons i do not know. 1. you can ask her out and hopes she says yes. or 2. ask her how she feels (tell her to be honest) and be honest with her about how you feel about her. being a girl has alot of commitments wether hanging with girls or just going someplace because you have to. also her friends probably have a big influence on her. if it's one thing i know is that your friends will try anything to keep you with them instead of always hanging out with a guy. (they don't want you soming in between their friendship)
good luck!!! hope i helped
2007-03-25 22:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by heythere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl really likes you she is not going to be that difficult.
2007-03-25 22:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Walter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-03-25 22:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by __ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a loser, so just assume she doesn't.
2007-03-25 22:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by MikeHunt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋