my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half... i dont know if its just that i'm getting bored or that i'm not used to a relationship (this is my longest) i dont want to break up with him but i want to just be free and hang out with everyone without him getting mad.. i dont want to lie to him about my where abouts.. he is super sweet and loves me a lot, i also love him.. sometimes i just get mad at him for no reason ( its been happening a lot lately). what is wrong with me???
2007-03-25 15:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by cbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loves you, just tell him that there may be some days where you just want to hang out with your friends. It's perfectly normal at that point in your relationship to want to spend some time away from each other, and it is good thing to do. Also if he's cool with you hanging out with your friends, be the same way if he's wanting to hang out with some of the guys. Hopefully you all trust each other enough for this to not be a problem.
About you getting mad at him for no reason, a reason why this could be happening is the load of stress you may be under. You may have had a rough day at work or during your classes or any other situation and may have not had the opportunity to relieve yourself from your frustrations, so when you do meet up with your boyfriend you may snap for no apparent reason. Just let him know that you may have not had a great day and if you do snap off and don't mean to do it, just apologize to him. Also, back to what I said in the previous paragraph, if you need to have a day to yourself, do so. He'll understand if you need to be by yourself to cool down. Hope this helps and good luck!!!
2007-03-25 15:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the question is "What is right with you."
Could be you are having second thoughts. Is it a year and a half of memories or a year and a half of waiting to see what is going to happen?
2007-03-25 22:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by supordude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust ME, Theirs nothing wrong with U, You two are prob... spending too much time together. Just sit him down and explain that U need more time alone and with freinds. Im sure he will understand he prob.... needs his own time too. We all go through this even married couples.... Good Luck
2007-03-25 22:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is his mabie too controling wanting to know where you are and who your with... mabie you guys just need a break from each other, try going like 2 or 3 days without seeing each other and see what happens
2007-03-25 22:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Lynn! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is happening 2 my best friend, this is what i told her. To spice things up a bit. You're probably getting bore w/ your relationship. Think of it as its easier to fight with some one you love because you feel more free & indp. than it is to fight some one you don't know because u aren't as comf. w/ them.
2007-03-25 22:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need some space and i dont think there's anything wrong with that just let him know that and if he really loves u he'll understand
2007-03-25 22:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by The Taste U can See 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋