Do you think a healthy relationship can be formed with someone after sleeping with them on the 1st date?
2007-03-25 15:00:59 · 26 answers · asked by -Dr. D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the person you slept with. chances are if they were willing to sleep with you on the first date, they view it as a fling. but i think its possible to still have a healthy relationship. you just need to take a step back, and tell her that you wanna take things slow, maybe tell her that you're really attracted to her but want to get to know her better before continuing things physically. if you like her, you might as well try. =)
2007-03-26 14:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by sym pathetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it depends on the couple--their intentions, chemistry, and past. Personally, I slept with my current boyfriend after I had known him briefly, but the first time he came to my house. We've now been dating four months. We have the best relationship I've ever been in. I'm sure this isn't always the case with people in our situation. But at the time, we were both looking for more than sex. We were fed up with random hook-ups and single life, and we were searching for something more meaningful. Anyways, the relationship is based on the connection. Some people may establish a connection within a first date, while it may take other couples longer to do that. So, I think it is entirely possible for a healthy relationship to be formed after having sex on the first date. Hope I helped. = )
2007-03-25 22:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think so. These kinds of relationships are short term and there is infatuation involved. It would make me wonder if that person jumped into bed with each one she or he ever dated on the first date. One can not have a healthy relationship base only on sexual performance.
However I suppose there are couples that have went on with a relationship and formed new bonds, trust, loyalty ,love like no other, had very similar goals in life and worked very hard at their relationship. Got married had children and now have grandchildren and is enjoying life to the fullest.
2007-03-25 22:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think so. There's nothing to look forward to anymore. The fun of a relationship is to start off not knowing anything about the person, getting to know them, gradually making it to each step of the relationship. Sex is totally being taken advantage of these days, and people need to start realizing that sex is something special shared between 2 people who absolutely love each other and hve built their relationship on trust and honesty. If these people know each other, it's one thing. But if they are completely strangers then I think there is absolutely no hope for them.
2007-03-25 22:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess. I think if you do it on the first date she's going to be too easy and wouldn't be able to use self control and things of that sort. but I guess the thing is the less you have something that you want the more you want it. so... if she can't have it when she does it will be even better.
2007-03-25 22:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if you can sleep with eachother on the first date that obviously means you both let lust get the best of you, normally when you really like someone you can wait forever. im going out with this guy from germany and in his country its normal to just sleep with that person cos they see no shame in it, instead we spend time getting to know eachother, preparing ourselves for eachother. i think its better to wait until all your emotions you hold for eachother just erupt.
2007-03-25 22:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by :L:V: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ANYTHING is possible in the realm of dating. Sure, why not? Just because I don't tend to do that...doesn't mean it is wrong for anyone else. Good luck :)
2007-03-25 22:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by yepitsme22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I never say never, starting off that way certainly doesn't help the chances. Odds aren't in favour of it lasting I'm afraid.
2007-03-25 22:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those kind of relationship can only last for a while. because the attraction only seems to be physically and no mentally.
so no. but life is uunnpredictable.
prove me wrong.
2007-03-25 22:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by CAT. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really, because I think that in a way it may feel weird, especially if you don't know each other, and to me, it seems like the "relationship" is just there for the sex
2007-03-25 22:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by perla0776 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋