What should i do????

Question

Well one of my best friends and i were jumping on my tramp and we had 3 pairs of flip flops with us. So i threw her flip flop off the tramp onto my grass. And then she threw my flip flop into my crush's yard. So i was going to go get it and his little brother came out and i asked him to get it for me. He was kind and he got it for me! thanks buddy! Well as he was walking away my friend said to the little boy she likes you. she thinks your cute. (she was refering to me.) so whatever. then i threw both of her flip flops over to their yard and she was standing by the fence and my crush was outside and my friend yells you with the white shirt and blue shorts will you get my shoes. And him being the nice person that he is got them for her. And she says she likes you (again refering to me) so i ran into the house. And then we were talking for a minute (my friend and i) and she's like i didn't tell him you liked him. But i heard her outside tell him! So what should i do. i'll feel embarasses

when i see him tomorrow. And my friend has done this before to me except it was a person i didn't even know and didn't like like that. I just don't know how to act because if i deny it then it will seem like i like him more. Or else i could just stand there and be silent. How can i help her realize what she is doing?

Answer 1

first of all~sometimes it is just best to tell your crush how you feel. you never know if they like you back and you won't know unless you ask. most of the time we are too scared to confront the person we like, in case of what they might say-and that's perfectly normall. just remember that if you don't tell someone how you feel about them they will most likely find out from another source. telling a person that you like them to their face instead of someone else telling them for you can be hard due to fear and when you do it shows that you have courage. (THERE IS NOTHING TO FEAR BUT FEAR ITSELF). go out there and get him. now that he know's why not make it official that you like him? ***make sure he's not taken***
second~ friends can be difficult, when they have news they just have to spread it.... would you have done it?? would you have been tempted??? she might have done this to you because of what she was feeling inside. people often say things before they think and don't think about who they are going to hurt. don't get too mad at her this is nothing to lose a best friend over.
third of all~ laughing at yourself is the best way to get rid of that inside embarassement. i know this from my own experiences- if you laugh at yourself instead of being embarassed nobody is going to think it is funny and will drop it almost instantly. also if they are laughing with you instead of laughing at you it seems to be easily forgotten because they will look for someone else to laugh at( not saying this happened just giving more advice)

well best of luck and i hope my advice helped . tell me how it goes!!

Answer 2

1st of all yell at your friend and tell her what shes doing is wrong and you don't like it (cuz its just rude!) 2nd as for the guy, hes a guy i doubt that he'll ask you. or aleast i don't think he'll mention it but if he askes don't lie and say you don't just be brave and say yes you do better yet just don't answer him! try to talk to him like nothing happened well good luck

Answer 3

sit her down and talk to her. i would definately feel embarrassed too but she need to understand that you are affected it. whenever you get to face your crush just play it cool...if he ask you if what your friend said was the truth, just tell him how you feel. good luck

Answer 4

Just simply say to her: "Hey, telling boys I like them when I don't, or more importantly when I do, is really not cool. You really need to stop if you want to keep hanging out with me."

Answer 5

wow. you should be greatful that what you just said is your biggest problem