My boyfriend flirts with girls on myspace. He even found his ex girlfriend and told her he loves her (He doesn't know that I know his password and checks his mail) Were in a relationship but he says on his page that he's looking for "pretty girls and model type girls" He doesn't seem to think it's wrong. Does anybody else besides me thinks it's wrong?
2007-03-25 14:55:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think its wrong then its wrong, since your snooping which I did with my ex its because you just dont trust him and there's the proof-he is cheating maybe not physically but the intention is there, he is not being honest with you and deceiving you. Im sure when you ask him if he talks to other girls he denies it right? Been there done that and hun dump him, the world is made of beautiful men that will treat you like a queen. Im guessing you are going crazy always worried who he's with and what he's doing and constantly checking his myspace, trust me if you decide to leave him the first couple of months will be hard but you will no longer feel like the psycho stalking him-you will have this weight lifted off your shoulders and you will free like how used to feel before him, good luck and remember life is too short
2007-03-25 15:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by dazzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm u know all of this and ur asking other ppl if he is wrong or not ? Do me a favor edit ur myspace page and make urself seem single and looking for hot guys too ... then wait and see ur ridiculously rude and player bf's reaction .... if he freaks out DUMP HIM because he is prick for expecting loyalty from after all the stuff he did.... and option number 2.... if he doesnt freak out DUMP HIM ANYWAY .. cuz what he is doing is soooo WRONG !!!!!!!!!!
- u sound young ... dont worry hun every1 goes through their naive phase one day u will look back and laugh at all of this .... good luck with everything & stay strong and respect urself nothing is more important than self respect
2007-03-25 15:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong and your relationship is already over, you just dont know it yet.
Even if you keep dating you'll always wonder about him cheating on you, you'll never have a clear mind about him.
And he'll never trust you either once he finds out youre going through his stuff and using his password even though he didnt give you permission to do so.
What he is doing is wrong, but what youre doing is wrong as well. Both of you would be better off going your seperate ways before you waste too much time.
2007-03-25 15:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh ya girl, that is WRONG, I hate that whole myspace thing, but anyhow , since you guys are together why does he even have a myspace, and then that thing with the exgirlfriend, come on now how much more do u need to know, i say you dump him and find someone better
2007-03-25 15:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I think a girl shouldn't check her boyfriend's mail, I think it is worse that he is still looking for someone when he already has a girlfriend. You should break up with him before you get really hurt!
2007-03-25 15:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered honestly and then felt bad about it. This is a revised listing.
What's good for him is good for you. Get on there and flirt yourself. Better yet, since you have his user name and password, log in as him and say something to the girls he's flirting with that will ruin his chances with them.
2007-03-25 15:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both wrong. He shouldn't be doing that, and you shouldn't be spying on him.
Break up. Deal with it. Do you really want to be with a cheater?
I'm guessing that there's something going on with your personality here too that you spy on your bf. Maybe that's why you ended up with a guy who does what he does.
You need to learn to be more trusting. Then you'll end up with guys you can actually trust.
Serious issues going on here. Just stop and smarten up.
2007-03-25 15:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Dump him for sure! But if you want to get even. Use his pasword to email all those girls. Think of something that will get him lots of hate mail. Or better yet, Give them all his real Email, his phone # and his address. : )
2007-03-25 15:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mara Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However wrong it is for you to get his password without him knowing and go through his information, it's equally wrong for what he's doing. Come clean about snooping through his account, then tell him you're leaving him if that's what you want to do.
2007-03-25 15:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, If he really wants to be exclusive he would stop that kind of stuff. I have never been the type to flirt on myspace because no offence to him or you, but its kind of pathetic in my opinion...If you tell him to stop, and he refuses...let him have one of his "cyber" friends and find a gentleman who treats u right.
2007-03-25 15:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋