Ok there is this girl I really like and all of her friends tell me that she likes me. But the big problem is that we are best friends. And idk if I should. One of my friends, becca, is friends with both of us and says i should but im still undecided. The girl I like flirts with me practically 24/7. Please help me
2007-03-25 14:51:20 · 14 answers · asked by heartbroken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to decide. Is trying a relationship with her worth losing your friendship if it doesn't work out? if you both like each other, talk about it, see if it's something you're both interested in pursuing.
2007-03-25 14:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by krisx42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that flirting is definately a sign that she likes you. i think that you should let her know how u feel. maybe the reason why you are undecided is that you are afraid that having a relationship with her will complicate things but not all times. because my best friend and i have been 2gether for over 8 yrs now. and if it works 4 me then i am quite positive that it will work 4 u....good luck on whatever u decide.
2007-03-25 21:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by nicky4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how good of friends you are. I went through the exact same thing awile ago. This girl and myself were great friends but both kinda were attracted to each other. The promlem was (and is in your case)...i didnt want to loose her as a friend when/if we broke up...were too close to loose each other...you know? So take that into consideration beofre you make a move.
good luck and i hope everything works out for ya.
2007-03-25 21:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do whatever your heart says. If you really like her and you know for sure that she likes you back, you shouldn't just tell her. You should show her in a subtle way. Maybe ask her if she wants to hang out. You know how in those movies where the guy and the girl who are friends hang out and finally kiss or something by the end of the movie? Something like that should happen between you two. I really think you should just ask her to hang out, or else you should show her you like her with a simple act of kindness or something. Girls like stuff like that. I know. I'm a girl.
2007-03-25 21:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea... to mix good buds with a romance. Good friends are hard to come by, keep the good friendship and forget the romance .. For some it works out.. but for the most it can mess up a romance and friendship went out the window.
2007-03-25 21:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by shakannaglory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have help for you because I am in the same situation, except I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me. I have not done anything. But if her friends says she likes you, you should go for it. If people were saying that about my best friend and she wasn't denying it i would go for it.
2007-03-25 21:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how obvious can this get. Of course she likes you! I had a simiiar incident 7 years ago and I just sucked it up and told her how I feel. Now, we are getting married next year. the worst that can happen is she says no. Just talk to her. Communication is key.
2007-03-25 22:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by PDoG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not ask her out on a date, the I would say yes...yoou do need help!
If any of her friends are having a party, ask her if she is going with anyone...if not..ask her if she'd like for you to accompany her.
Aske her out to the movies....Disney's Meet the Robinsons is out of friday....and it is coming out in 3D theaters in a town near you!
look it up!
www.reald.com
Be a gentleman, smile a lot, and tell her how nice she looks. Treat her like a queen and she will remain your best friend for life!
Cheers
2007-03-25 21:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by tito_swave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go wit her if you lik her. Ya kno best friends can be the best couples ever becuz you already kno everything bout eachother and not afraid to talk bout anything. Juzt becuz she like you dont mean you can act different, gurls hate that, trust me. Be like you used to. Go wit her and if you dont lik it break up wit her without breakin her heart
2007-03-25 21:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best friends make the best couple. Go for it. Unless you want to go back to the old Greek/Roman models of relationships, which I don't think we do.
2007-03-25 21:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jacques 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋