Is it okay to make out with someone if the person you like (but not going out with them) is away on spring break? I mean this girl that i like went to cancun and she knows i like her but were not going out or anything like that, so if something just "happens" over spring break would that be bad?
2007-03-25 14:51:18 · 21 answers · asked by Krispy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can answer that question....I will offer some "food for thought" though. If you really care about the person that is in Cancun, why would you be interested in being intimate with another? Do you think it would be okay if your friend in Cancun made out with someone while she's away? You have to determine what boundaries you set for yourself and more importantly, what boundaries you maintain. No one else can make that determination for you. Best wishes!
2007-03-25 14:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Michele D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it wouldn't be bad. If your not dating the girl that went to Cancun, then who knows what she could be doing over there. For the most part, your single, now if you and her were dating then I'd say that you better not do anything while she's gone. It's Spring Break, your single and maybe you might find someone else you like more than her by the time she gets back.
2007-03-25 21:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Syn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't quite understand your question so I'll answer 2 ways:
1. If you're not in any relationship with anyone, you're a free agent. Therefore, who you make out with and when is nobody's business.
2. Making out is a very spontaneous process. And yeah, it could happen between 2 people even if they are not in a relationship. Is this bad? Of course not!
2007-03-25 22:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kfootbal, if you are thinking of snogging someone else while the person you supposedly care about is away then you cant really care for them.....If you are not going out with the girl who is away then you don't have comitment ties with her. The same goes for her though.......would you care if she snogged someone else while away? If you are thinking of hooking up with someone else, do the right thing and let the other girls know so she can do the same. Good luck to you.
2007-03-25 21:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by kelstar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No commitment on either side. Do you think she's in Cancun worried about you?
2007-03-25 21:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it would be bad.. i was in the same situation a year ago and i think its okay if you guys aren't official because its SPRING BREAK and your single =)
2007-03-25 22:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by cbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you arent going out.. sometimes what a girl thinks going out is and what a man thinks it is..are two different things..make sure you are on the same page..if you really like and there is a slim chance that making out with someone new will screw it up..then dont do it..
2007-03-25 21:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by madeline4477 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not dating, she doesn't have any claim on you whatsoever. Have fun over spring break! She's not your girlfriend and you're not engaged!
2007-03-25 21:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by lytlLyd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont HAVE to be true to Cancun... and you don't HAVE to make with the one who is convenient...but if your not true to yourself it will affect you. annnnd Make out I assume means kissing...kissing is an initmate act...and intimate acts are not for casual conveniences.
2007-03-25 22:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's okay. If you'll aren't going out, then there is no reason that she should get mad at you or anything.
2007-03-25 21:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋