Do you ask in plain english or through hints and encripted messages? How is that work'n for ya?
Men how often do you fall victim to this?
2007-03-25 14:48:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mekeda, General ? "How do you ask?"
How is 'The way you ask' working for you. It's a general question, you seem to have personal issue with it ,no one else does.
2007-03-25 15:03:59 · update #1
well girls and guys are on whole different levels with communicating.. girls usually try to ask through hints and things expecting their guys to Know.. because that's just how we are.. but the truth of the matter is that guys are simple-minded and they need to just be TOLD what we want... and the sooner girls realize that the sooner they will get what they want.. .because if they don't then they will probably never get it!
2007-03-25 14:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Victim?
Men when you meet a girl and say you have lots of female friends.
When they are really just other string along friends with benefits.
Then when the right girl comes along you wonder why she does not trust you?
So we become victims when we are not honest with ourselves.
Stop trying to generalize an isolated incident.
Stop trying to "genderize" something that is individual and applicable to a group.
How is that work'n for ya?
2007-03-25 21:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it in plain English. I do know some women who do it the other way. I have a friend that when she gets mad, she just pouts, doesn't talk to you at all, or just gets snappy with emails or talking to you. You ask what's wrong and she says, "Nothing". You're supposed to "magically" know why she's upset with you. That is soooo annoying. Of course, we are not all that way. Bless you men who have to deal with that. I wouldn't last long. ; )
2007-03-25 22:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by freedove06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell him what I want and how I want it no holding back on what I have to say to him.In he cant understand the hints and I say am I speaking a different language or something so I have to tell him in plain old English
2007-03-25 21:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by missnewshawty_08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you want something ask for it plain and simple. The whole hint thing is playing games. It has worked for me very well with my husband he either tells me yes or no and I know where I stand.
2007-03-25 21:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by dramamama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a great believer in clear and honest communication ~ Seems to work for me ~ Why play games or 'beat around the bush'?
2007-03-25 21:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by pandora_293 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha sometimes I ask point blank..but sometimes I give him metaphorical stories hoping he will figure it out..however he never does and even when I do things point blank he still doesnt understand..so maybe im not asking in the correct way?
2007-03-25 21:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by madeline4477 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i hint it so many times, then if the stupid kid doesnt get it then i tell him in plain english but then it ruins it and i kind of dont want it anymore... so always pay attention.....
2007-03-25 21:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flat out ask for it. If you do not ask for what you want, you never get it.
2007-03-25 21:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by angela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just yell it out loud
2007-03-25 21:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by sierra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋