Well...I told him to go to the school dance and have fun...but have fun...did not refer to him cheating on me at the dance.
he danced with the other girl and told her he was going to dump me. he got all close to her. and everybody saw. then he called me and tried to pull the "i still love you" act.
did i do the right thing by not buying it?
i mean, im happier this way, and hes over it. but did i do the right thing by dumping him right then? i dont take unfaithful guys...and im not bought with sweetness and affection.
please answrr. =]]
2007-03-25 14:41:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
adding another detail...we went out for five months and it was never steady.
2007-03-25 14:46:25 · update #1
and he didnt just dance with the other girl. he asked her out and kissed her.
two timing???
2007-03-25 14:47:37 · update #2
girl i want to commend you on being so amazing! what you did takes a very strong-will - and you DO deserve better than this guy! any guy who can do that to you you are Much better off without!!! you definitely did the right thing, don't doubt yourself.. always trust your gut.. and Never Look Back - only Forward. there are much better guys to come who Won't lie to you and who will Love you and treat you right and not need Anyone else!!!! congrats for getting away from him and being able to realize this all when you did! you said it yourself You are happier this way and he's over it. that's what is most important anyway right.. Your HAPPINESS. and if he's over it you obviously didn't mean That much to him.. at least not as much as you should have! best wishes to ya...! you'll find mr. right!
2007-03-25 14:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u did de right thing, just that u r in de situation, u are unable 2 think so..cheaters are not to be entertained, besides u have been having unsteady relationship, this break up was long overdue, and de best thing is u did it...dont let boys take u for granted, and treat u like doormat...dont worry..well done!!
2007-03-25 21:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you did the right thing.You did the right thing.you have to do what's best for you.There are times you have to give guys the benefit of the doubt but you got to go with you gut feelings first.
2007-03-25 21:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by lyndsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was cheating then he tryed to pull the "i still love you act" on you then you did do the right thing because i see it all the time. so be more happy and find another guy.
But make shur he is thoughtfull honist and nice.
but you did do the right thing.
2007-03-25 21:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First word: SCHOOL. Enjoy life. If he wasn't what you wanted or expected, then yeah, dump him and move on. You will go through many more guys before you settle down so just enjoy being young.
2007-03-25 21:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their are soooo many other fish in the sea... Go out their and catch you a good one! You are too young to be bogged down with just one guy anyway.
2007-03-25 21:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i give u a big high five....i think u totally diod the right thing...but how long did you guys go out for?
2007-03-25 21:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by The Taste U can See 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, I dont see him just dancing with a girl is cheating. There are many girls that your boyfriend, finance, and/or husband is going to come into contact with. You have to have trust. Dancing with another girl is not cheating.........
2007-03-25 21:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're happier this way? I believe you answered your own question. Whatever is best for you is the right decision.
2007-03-25 21:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Antoine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing, yuor not a door mat and dont let yourself become one, Girl, YOU ROCK!!!!!
2007-03-25 21:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋