I have come to the conclusion....after a lot of time spent talking with a lot of paople....That I am affraid of commitment. I am 25 years old and have broken up with a guy I am in love with once, began hanging out again, and pushed him away again...I hate myself for putting him through this and I want to know how to deal with this. I seem to put up a wall when people get too close and never talk about how I feel.... I know I need to do this but its much easier said than done...Please help....
2007-03-25 14:28:27 · 3 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree about the Therapy. Lots of people do it and it doesn't mean you're crazy. Actually, it means you're smart enough to go make yourself a better person.
2007-03-25 14:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all good im 23 going on 24 this year, and ive been in two long relationships and im finally enjoying being single!! I dont know wether you have a fear for commitment or wether you just havent found the right one!! Do you get bored with your partner? In your past relationships have you been able to picture yourself being with that person for the rest of your life and settling down and having kids, etc? Your only 25 babe!! better to be with no-one then with someone you dont really like, or that youy've just settled for!!! Don't have a mid life crisis before one is needed!!! Goodluck with finding Mr Right!! and if you do find him and he has a brother, send him my way! :)
2007-03-25 14:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek therapy to find out why you have a fear of commitment,
2007-03-25 14:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋