Ok so I told this chick that I drink. And her and I are going out sometime. Problem is I never have. Not more than just a tiny tiny bit. So what do I do? Well it be obvious that I haven't once I start? Please help. I don't want her to think I lied to her. I know it's terrible and I would take it back if I could... but I can't. I kinda like this girl. Please help me out. Thanks.
2007-03-25 14:22:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
if you arent into drinking then dont drink. what, you dont have a choice? i am a server and occasionally i wait on one of my fav couples. they must be in their 70s at least. the first time i waited on them i asked them if they would like something to drink. the man ordered a beer. she said something like ooooh he gets different when he drinks beer. and she said alcohol has never touched her lips and never will. they are the cutest couple you could imagine and have been together for almost forever. so if you dont want to drink, dont. and you shouldnt be too afraid of letting her know why u said that. then after that, dont make stuff up
2007-03-25 14:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by AlwaysWondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'll have to put a brave face on it, try to handle as much as you can and end up a sorry, sodden lump of mush while making a total fool of yourself. Sucks to be you, but that's what happens when you lie to people.
Or, you could tell her the truth now, apologize and try to go have a good time anyway. Chicks can be surprisingly forgiving if you give them a chance, certainly more than if they find out the hard way.
2007-03-25 21:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to eat first so you are starting on a full stomach. Make sure that you are driving your car. Then just drink very little and tell her that you want to make sure she gets home alright at the end of the night. Tell her you are strongly opposed to drunk driving (which you should be anyway). But sooner or later you're going to have to fess up.
2007-03-25 22:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by bluebelldown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are the one driving on the date. When the waiter/waitress takes your order ask for a water and say you will have a glass of wine/beer with your meal. Then drink slowly and only have that one drink. This will show you are putting her safety first. Prior though, start practicing!
2007-03-25 21:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Scott B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple just go out and when it is time to order decline a strong drink. Look her in the eye and tell her you are already intoxicated by her presence. And do not want to spoil the moment with liquor.
She will eat this up and you will save face.
2007-03-25 21:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say you are laying off the booze for the night as you dont want to forget anything about the evening. or that you were hammered the night before and couldnt face a drink. or be honest! if she likes you, she wont care! whether you drink or not does not make a girl like you!!!!
2007-03-26 15:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..you shouldnt have lied ..it will always come back to you..so if you plan on not telling her the truth just take it easy on the drink and get something light .dont start hittin shots liek crazy if you never have .throwing up aint cool in front of the ladies lol
2007-03-25 21:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by matthew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sort of silly you lied about that. Make sure you have a full stomach and try to eat while you drink.
2007-03-25 21:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful. You have already lied to her. Don't cover it up with another one. A lasting relationship won't last very long based on lies.
If you like her she will know and like you for telling the truth.
2007-03-25 21:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by tichur 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it, just drink a comfortable pace, and once you get a couple in you, all your worries will go away, just try not to pass out before the sex, and don't black out either you want to remember it. But if you do pass out, remember if you wake up in the morning in her bed, then yes you did have sex!!!
2007-03-25 21:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋