ok so me and my ex BF broke up about 7 or 8 weeks ago and we both loved each other but then we had to brake up cause my parents found out n i would be screwed cause im not aloud to date. but u see the weird thing is we only went out for about two weeks and i kno u cant fall in love in two weeks but i did! and now that we have been broken up i cant get him off my head i still love him so much! and about 2 weeks ago i asked him how he felt n he said he will always care for me! but now he is everything i think about i think i still love him. He was my first and only BF ...! wut should i do about this should i move on or try to win him bacc? please help me!
2007-03-25 14:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first boyfriends are always the hardest to get over, and usually the ones you fall for the hardest. You sound like you're still young so there's plenty more guys out there that you'll probably date, fall for, and say I love you to. It's always tough to move on after a first break up because well, it's your first. If your parents not allowing you to date was the only reason you broke up then maybe you guys would be good together. It's probably only puppy love, but who knows. Just try and remain friends, he'd do that if he really cares about you. And who knows, if it really is love then maybe he'll wait and stay around until you're allowed to date.
2007-03-25 14:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Katdabrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor sweetie, losing her first love. Well, if you're cool about keeping the relationship on-line (you obviously have access to a computer so I'm guessing he does too), you shouldn't have broken up in the first place. You could have kept the relationship going via the Internet and since you're not actually meeting up with him for a date or something you're not technically disobeying your parents. So keep it electronic for a while till you are allowed to go on date; at least this way, you know you still got the guy. Wanna try it?
Keep those grades up so you don't get in trouble with your parents. Be cool.
2007-03-25 21:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you dont want to do this, but I would talk to your parents. Let them meet the guy you wanna date. If you dont feel comfortable doing that, then you two could just be very close friends and when you are aloud to date, then ask him out again. You could also ask your parents if you could double date with someone else, like one of your good friends and one of his good friends. I tried this, and it worked perfectly.
2007-03-25 21:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i had my first boyfriend in grade 5, well kindergarten but it doesnt count cause it wasn't really a real boyfriend.. anyways i SWEAR TO GOD, until you like graduate you wont stop having feelings. i have gone out with the same guy twice, i think about him all the time... i still love him and i only went out with him for about 2 weeks also :( good luck, i know how you feel. LOVE SUCKS!
2007-03-25 21:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Someone : ] ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you? i would keep in touch with him and just be friends for the moment, ur probably gonna have to wait until your parents let you date, that's really the only way around it
definitely still talk to him and do stuff so you still have some sort of relationship
2007-03-25 21:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by ikikcurdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are underage. If he loves you, he can wait for you. Why dont u enjoy the friendship first and get to know each other better and figure out each others bad and good side. Two weeks is kinda rushy.
2007-03-25 21:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know its hard to even begin to imagine, but this will pass. You sound very young and probably should listen to your parents when they say you're not allowed to date.
Take it from an adult, life is long and hard, you have PLENTY of time for this kind of stuff. Enjoy your childhood!
2007-03-25 21:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by sahara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER lose your communication.....but test him.
In situations like this you will know when the guy truly loves you .....if he is..... tell your parents that your not a kid anymore.... i know this is hard for you but sometimes you must stand not to lose.....but don't be angry when you talk to your parents it will only screw up more
2007-03-25 21:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by bryan_closa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i've been there too.
just wait for him, and bee friends with benefits.
2007-03-25 21:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋