hello! the story goes like this: i went to the US for summer vacations, I go every year, met this guy, we dated 2 months, it was just perfect, then i came back home, to South America, he promised we would stay in touch, as email buddys, i was ok with that, I only wanted to be his friend on the distance because i know long distance relationships are too hard, we talked like once or twice a week, and everything was going great, he sent me a valentine's ecard, and we were good, but since 3 weeks ago, I haven't heard from him... this is so not like him, I am worried, mad, sad. Did I do something wrong, he knew I am moving to the US this year, and he kept saying he would just love that cause he misses me and stuff...
Why would he just stop talking to me...??? could there be any other reason besides meeting another girl?
2007-03-25 14:13:03 · 43 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be anything, but it is hard to maintain a long distance relationship...the likelihood is that he just moved on.
2007-04-02 08:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things happen when people are at a large distance from each other. You both lead two separate lives, but when you were in US over the summer I guess they just intertwined, though that doesn't make you guys any less different. A lot could have happened, don't make assumptions about another girl or anything just yet. Just keep trying to get in touch with him but don't sound too desperate. He might have seen those two months as just a fling, knowing you would just go back to south america after the summer was over with. Just try and talk with him and ask what he expects out of a relationship with you, if anything, before deciding to move there for him.
2007-03-25 14:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Katdabrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be several reasons honestly. Don't automatically think of all the worst ones. At the same time, maybe its a good thing. Possibly a blessing in disguise. So look at the positive and move on, especially since you were just maintaining as "friends" when you moved back to SA. Look forward to meeting lots and lots more men when you do come to the U.S.
2007-04-02 12:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have answered this question before, but last time my answer was not specific; because, I do not want to add to you worries. What I am trying to say is that sometimes no news is good news. Be thankful that you have not heard something bad like for example: He was hospitalized. You may hear from him and find out that he has been away and had not been able to email. One thing you should consider is that you may want to hope for his sake that he has found another girl; because, the alternatives could be more heartbreaking.
2007-03-26 00:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't emailed you, and it isn't like him. There could be other reasons besides it being another girl. He may have computer problems, or something like that. I wouldn't pass judgment just yet. Give it a little time. Sounds like you are in love though. Don't set yourself up for disappointment. You being at a distance was one thing, but don't count on him being your boyfriend once you come to the US.
2007-04-02 12:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many responses I could answer to this...
He may be dead or in the hospital, but lets not think negatively.
He could be dating someone else. Maybe that girl is psycho and has him on check. Checks his emails, doesn't let him do anything!
He may have not check his emails, in a long time.
He may be going through difficult situations at the moment....family problems, financial status, friend ordeals, etc...
There are too many possibilites, it could be anything, hang in there!
And if you have his number, call him! If not, wow, maybe you should of thought of that before you left.
2007-03-25 14:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes alot of energy to keep up a long distance relationship, even just a friendship.
You didn't do anything wrong, but it may just be too much for him to keep it up.
Maybe it is too naive to think that two people who only knew each other for a few months would keep in contact for may months after without seeing each other. It's life.
2007-03-25 14:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by bluefrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by ruple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that is what it is, Do you have a home # for him so you can call and atleast make sure he is ok. Maybe send him an email and just say I want to make sure everything is ok and if you would not like to talk to me please just let me know, I am kind of worried since it is unlike you to not contact me.
2007-03-25 14:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he found someone else and doesn't want to break your heart by telling you. I honestly hope that I'm wrong. He should at least have the courage to tell you. Maybe something happened though. If I were you, I wouldn't fret about it. I understand you were close, but men are jerks.
2007-03-25 14:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it is I just hope it's nothing bad! If he's safe and sound and not replying to your emails nor answering your phone calls then he's even playing the interesting guy o he's just messing with you. Let's hope for the best, ok?
2007-03-25 14:53:49 · answer #11 · answered by hfetish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋