I always found it more interesting & personal to talk about family & relatives (& the stories you both think of when talking about them), old friends or past relationships, elementary school, stories from your childhood. Don
't worry about getting too in depth. It's just more personal & relatable to share stories, you'll learn a lot about each other. Later, once you know them well & have a fixed attraction to them, then it's easier to discuss controversial issues & your stances on that such as: religion, politics, morals & ethics, etc. etc.
Don't rehearse anything, if you have to then maybe write down some questions or stories as conversation starters. Let the conversation take it's own direction. It's very important to have good communication in any relationship so keep working on it. Good Luck!
2007-03-25 14:10:55
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answered by aussie_gurl118 3
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how long have you been going out? if it's a fairly new relationship you can ask questions like what's your favorite or least favorite movie? What's your favorite color? What's the last good book you read? If you had a million dollars what would you do with it? Things like that that will get him talking, that way you don't have to talk much, just listen. And you get to learn more about him in the process. If you've been going out a while and you already know all those things, then talk about what you both want to do with your lives, where you see yourselves 10 years from now, stuff like that. I have a hard time finding things to talk about on the phone too. I hate talking on the phone.
2007-03-25 14:08:10
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answered by Anonymous
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joking around alot saying crazy stuff
try to make him do the talking
say stuff like i want to squeeze ur a**
then he laughs or says sure you can then you laugh saycrazy stuff like that
2007-03-25 14:07:04
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answered by dre 3
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talk about funny things...that happen earlier in the day. talk about the weather, the weekend, about clothes. ask him what things he likes and doesn like...stuff like that.
2007-03-25 14:08:45
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answered by BUTTERFLY 4
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anything that comes up on your mind.
you can talk about these things :
how much you love him
music
news
movies
2007-03-25 14:05:25
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answered by Anonymous
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ask funny stuff, say funny things, ask weird questions, talk about sex
2007-03-25 14:05:30
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answered by Anonymous
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tv
music
summer plans
what you want out of life
2007-03-25 14:06:20
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answered by Cher 6
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i have the same problem well not that it's a probleme but yah i wanna do the same too!!!
2007-03-25 14:06:17
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answered by The Taste U can See 3
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Get drunk before you call him.
2007-03-25 14:05:35
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answered by greg s 2
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lol... if your a talker, then you will figure it out.
2007-03-25 14:06:19
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answered by ? 6
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