So... my friend worries to much about her looks. She's 13 and is 5'6, weights 155, is blonde, green-eyes, cute ( you could call it hot ) and a tremendous kisser, so I've heard. She worries that guys don''t like her for her appereance or looks. Do you care if she's a little over weight or too tall or anything? Please tell me so that I can tell her what guys say about her! It's important!
2007-03-25 13:58:56 · 15 answers · asked by Blonde Cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are usually naturally taller than guys before high school, but if you say she's hot (from a guys perspective) then I don't see why she would mind unless she's vindictive of herself.
2007-03-25 14:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh if only girls your age could see what they're NOT missing out on. The whole key to a good love life is loving yourself first. Granted there are empty guys out there who only value a woman for her outward appearance but why would she want to be with someone who cares only about that anyway? Also if she doesn't like how she looks, there's always exercise (not that she needs to, I'm just saying.)
PS. The fact that you're screenname is "Confused Babe" and you talk about how your friend is a tremendous kisser..does not help lolol.
2007-03-25 21:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys judge by appearance. I'm the kind of guy that like a girl because of her personality. If shes nice, caring and love to have fun then i think she's just fine. I also think a girl with green eyes is hot.
2007-03-29 12:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the most important thing for your friend is confidence. I believe for men like 85% of attraction is base on looks and she will look better if she has confidence. She should do everything possible to make her feel better about herself. One of those things might be to lose weight (just make sure she doesnt become anorexic).
Height really doesnt matter for me as long as the person is between 5'2 and 5'10. Personally I like a slim girl (not anorexic and not incredibly thin) so depending on her body type for her height it would be anywhere between 120 and 140.
As long as your friend can feel good about herself she should be fine
2007-03-25 21:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl, so sorry for invading ur "guys only" post. lol. but i think i have some advice.
she seems like a pretty girl, she shouldn't worry. i have a friend with the same problem, and it seems like that guys in 8th grade and below, always like the "super popular skinny hot chicks" but in high school, guys start seeing beyond that. i think she just needs to wait a little, and soon she'll have guys all over her :)
i even have guy friends that dont care is a girl is a bit over weight, they say as long as theres a connection, its okay.
good luck!!
2007-03-25 21:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys care a lot about looks, infact, at first its the only thing that matters. i arnt going to talk to some fat ugly moose just on the off chance she has a good personality.
2007-03-25 21:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by shane l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, without a picture I can't tell, but green eyes? Oh, yeah. She's hot.
2007-03-25 21:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is personality, she should not care if she is good looking enough for a certain guy.
2007-03-25 21:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by The Real McCoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little overweight? too tall? how overweight? and height doesn't matter to me. hot and cute? I'd date her. and kiss her. what's her body like? bottom line; if she's fun, nice, and sensible, most guys would like her.
2007-03-25 21:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by F-14D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 13, its kinda normal worrying about that kinda stuffs..
but honestly... not it dont matter, if we like a girl, we like a girl, regardless how tall or how heavy she is
well at least that's how it works for me
2007-03-25 21:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by lump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋