Me and this guy have been dating goin on 8 months in April.But we have been on a rollercoster ride for the past 2 1/2 months.We went to lake Whily today and everthing was goin good but then he wanted to start doin stuff in frount of his lil brother and lil sister.I wouldnt do anything so he got mad and broke up with me again.But after about 30 to 45 minuets he was back over at the golf cart telling me to drive somewhere that we needed to talk and we needed to be by our selves cause we were a cuple and didnt need anyone else to be listing.I drove over to the dam close to the water but their were trees blockin the water so it was the perfect spot to do IT nad i didnt realize it until i had stoped and then i tried to put the key in and drive off but he stoped me and threw me down and made me do IT.What do i do i was a vergin and i didnt even want to>i need help am i scared for life or should i juist blow it off?HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP
2007-03-25 13:42:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not blow it off. Sex without your consent is rape. Talk to an adult, someone that can help you. This is a serious matter and people should know. You never know when he will do this again, so you need more help than I can give you. Good luck!
2007-03-25 13:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off you could call the cops if you want and get a restaring order against him if you want and then you could all rape if you said no dont and he didnt but how far you wanna with it is up to you. do what you feel is right. dont just ball it up inside it will just hurt more!!!
2007-03-25 20:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by dovera1c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from him
and get the authorties
go some where you feel safiest
and sleep/stay there
2007-03-25 20:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahh thats called rape and the police are very good at putting these characters in jail --- so see your parents someone you trust the police everyone you can think of and put the mongrel in jail
2007-03-25 20:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a fool. get away from this guy NOW. He is obviously a messed up person with messed up priorities. DUMP him and MEAN IT - get a restraining order & a gun if you have to...
2007-03-25 20:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI, I THINK YOU NEED TO TELL HIM WHAT HE DID. IF YOU DON'T WONT TO DO IT YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID NO. YOU CAN CALL THIS RAPE BECAUSE YOU DID NOT WANT THIS TO HAPPEN. YOU NEED TO GET HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE. OR HIM MIT HIT YOU OR THREW YOU DOWN AGAIN. THAT IS NOT GOOD. HE IS SHOWING HIS MEAN SIDE AND THAT IS NO GOOD. GET HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
2007-03-25 21:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said NO at any point during this then it was RAPE. Looking at your other Q's you did it consensually. You got what you wanted, I just hope that he used a condom.
2007-03-25 20:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this sounds kind of serious... not the kinda thing you wanna post on yahoo... you should talk to a close friend, a teacher, or something
2007-03-25 20:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chris M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, get away from this beast, tell someone because he was totally wrong, this was his plan. You said it yourself you need help get help, don't blow this off.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 20:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should report this. He raped you. If you let it go he may do it to someone else. Also you can go to www.rapecrisis.com for more info. Goodluck!
2007-03-25 20:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Inquiring mind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋