Is it Love?

Question

Ive known this dude for years and Ive always had a big thing for him. We became friends and started talking alot. Then i start having deep feelings for him. We got together, and now i cant get him off my mind, out of my dreams or my imagination. Everything i say, every move i make, every decision that i make goes make to him. When i see him i smile enough for everyone the whole day. He makes me feel so good. My heart pumps faster when i hear his voice or when he gets real close to me. Its like i get shy all over again. Is it Love and how can i make the next step

Answer 1

Just ask him out and see where it goes. You only live once no time for half-stepping. Good luck

Answer 2

I know exactly how u feel. The same thing happened to me and I really thought that he was the one and I wasn't supposed to be with anyone but him. But now I'm engaged to someone else and getting married in June and am soooooo in love!!!!
now I'm not saying that it is not love.. and I'm not saying that if u end up with him it wont work.. all I'm saying is that this person will always be the best friend I ever had before i met my real love. u might think that you love him because of the way he makes you feel about yourself or because you are down most of the time and he's the only one who makes you smile, and that's very good.. in my case, i was honest with him and told him how i felt, that was before i met my real love, his reply was that he was confused and didn't know if his feelings were real love and I was really heart at that time..just see his reaction and give yourself as much time as you need to decide.. give yourself the chance to meet other people too.. that will help a lot to make you know if you really really really loved him or not.. I still feel good when i think about him now.. but my fiancee is my real love...

Answer 3

Gurl u are in deep love!!! I know exactly how u feel...that is how I feel about the person I'm with now he's always on my mind. I think if u have been with him for awhile and u trust him, then u should tell him how u feel just don't move too fast or he'll get scared and try to avoid u. So just give it time and when u feel comfortable around him then tell him how u feel. but like I said, I really think you're in love, either that or just sprung!!!

Answer 4

I think that if you have known him for years, and started with friendship and it developed into more, then there is a big possibility that it IS love... but only you can decide that... if you spend alot of time together, that is great but there is bound to be conflict, and that is normal, but you cant really know if it is love until you have have your conflicts and you are forced to put your feelings toward him in perspective... if having him in your life is more important to you than anything you have conflicted about, you might want to let him know exactly how you feel toward him because if he loves you too, but doesnt know that you feel the same the next conflict could cause him to feel like he is wasting his time, and vise versa if you dont know how he feels toward you, you might in turn feel as if you are wasting your time... if you are worried about telling him that you love him for fear that it might scare him off... then dont... there are ways to express your feelings without saying the "L" word... but its best to be out in the open about your feelings... that way it will be easier to say the "L" word when that time comes... I wish you luck

Answer 5

Sounds like love to me for sure. First thing is first, let him know how you feel be honest and upfront but not too overpowering. If he acts wierded out, then back off and let him get used to the news. Chances are (and good luck) that he'll share the same feelings for you. Just don't pressure him into anything. Tell him how you feel and let nature take it's course.

Answer 6

Of course it is.......and congrats because it is hard to find now a days!!! The next step is a date. Plan a romantic picnic with lots of white and red candles with fruits galore!!! Strawberries, kiwi, peaches, grapes, watermelon, honeydew, and mango's. He can't turn you down. Make sure you take him there blind folded. Don't forget to kiss the earlobe after he says "YES!"

Answer 7

Its not love since your asking. You know love when it hits, there's no question about it. Sounds like infatuation to me, totally different than love. Quit thinking so much about it, just let your heart lead you. Only you can answer your question.

Answer 8

Sweetie thats how I feel right now with my boyfriend but I think you should ask that guy out if your really feelin him like how you say you are. Give it a shot.

Answer 9

after all that u ask...
of course its love hun what do u need more :D
go out with him tell him a bout ur feelin tell him that he is the guy u want to sit with to talk with he will understand if he don ....tell him that u like him and u want him to be ur date or ur bf its over he will say I love u 2 and u'll see and
good luck

Answer 10

yeah its love but i need more info 2 answer how u can make the next step