I was sort of dating one of my friends. Well it didn't work out and I'm cool with that and so is he. He has a girlfriend now and I am dating someone, but we love each other as friends and can't stop talking to each other or seeing each other because we are so close. We know everything about each other. We had sex four times and it was the best sex of my life. But we agreed that we would be friends forever. We have been hanging out and kicking it just like we should. I am still close with his family and him with mine. We tried not being friends for awhile, but it was too hard. WE missed each other. I just wanted to know if you thought we could make it was friends?
2007-03-25 13:37:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One tad bit I left out:
We even tried to have a child together at one point!
2007-03-25 14:12:26 · update #1
Why not just be boyfriend girlfriend? They say that best friends make the best lovers. Sounds like your in love with him. Because if you or him hope to ever have a relationship with someone else, those feelings and memories will get in the way. maybe not right away ,but someday.And it's not fair to the person you or he is with. This may not be what you want to hear, but people don't like to have to compete for someones affections or their attention.
2007-03-25 13:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by MARK S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm.... yes and no. Can you still be friends, of course. Can your current relationships deal with that? Maybe, no. Best Sex of your life but still friends will ALWAYS make you want to have that experience again...and that could lead to cheating. If your current relationships are worth your effort, I'd suggest put the friend aside and concentrate on your new relationship, it's only fair to give 100% to the person you're with. If you are both willing to be single, then let the 'friendship' continue!
2007-03-25 20:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl u r soooooo luky of course or y not take it a step further a try to got out just take a risk. okay u went out had a good time but then saw that u 2 jus are better off friends BIG DEAL go for it gurl
2007-03-25 20:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by julia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are the best kind of friends, whenever things dont work out with your dating life you can go back to each other for hot friend sex, thats something you should never give up
2007-03-25 20:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there will always be that knowledge of what happened ut maybe it was not meant to be more than friends. Just beware of jealous significsnt others who may ask questions. Good luck a good friendship is one to keep.
2007-03-25 20:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by SADGIRLOH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it will work too long. Once that happens it is very hard to put it in the back of your mind. But if you can make it work then good for you. Good Luck
2007-03-25 20:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are very hard to find. If you 2 are fine with this relationship have fun, I heard friends make good marriages.
2007-03-25 20:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you can still be good friends as long as you respect each other' s space, friends and decisions in life'
2007-03-25 20:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by jrich32103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason you cant stay friends after you've dated someone...unless you both need like a bit of space first if you still have feelings for that person.
2007-03-25 20:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by jezzika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are friends TOO!! But not just friends... Believe me... I know how this is... and I am telling you from my own experience that you are not JUST friends and you will never be!!
2007-03-25 20:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by Georgia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋