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ok so my teacher whos a male n 25 y.o. he came over to me during class 1 day n was rubbing my back. n then he was touchin my hair n askin me if i was alright. n then one day he was touching my hand. was it sexual harasment? n he always smiles at me n stuff. when my friends n i are comin through the hallway they says he always stares at us. i think its fuked up. n the one time i was tellin my friend how he was touching me n $hit n he walked by n heard our whole convorsation. n after dat the next 2 weeks he always yelled at me and stuff. but now hes all smiling n the other day he got really close to me. my friend says its sexual harasment n im jus wondering wat u think.
thank you for all ur help =)

2007-03-25 13:33:29 · 32 answers · asked by honney bunny 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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When I was in 8th grade, I had a teacher much like that. He was in a wheel chair, but he'd always rest his hands on my thighs when helping me with work. He'd do the back rubs and such, and it made me REALLY uncomfortable. I went to the school counselor about it and they didn't take me very seriously. But then some other girls came forward and they had to listen to us. I'd suggest going to the counselor at your school and talking with them, if you have friends he's done the same thing to, have them go too. It's inappropriate if it's making you uncomfortable. And I know sometimes it's hard to say no to an authority figure. Go to someone you feel you can trust, like another teacher or a counselor.

2007-03-25 13:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by usa_armywife 2 · 1 1

Well it could be! Its really hard to say not knowing the whole story. He could just be a verry caring person. I have had male teachers be caring like that. But if he touches you anywhere else I would tell someone like another teacher. Its only sexual harasment If he makes sexual comments or touches you butt or boobs or rubs you legs like that type stuff. If you have a problem with it tell him what you think. Maybe its not what it seems! If you tell him that you feel uncomfortable about it. Maybe he will stop if he continues tell someone else it makes you uncomfortable. I wouldent tell him alone either. I would like have a friend stand far enough away so its not obvious she listening but enough so she can hear just incase something else happens or is said!!!! Good luck!

2007-03-25 13:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If anything this teacher is doing makes you feel uncomfortable, that is your answer, trust your red flag. He's probably looking for you to make a move back, then that is his green light. 25 is very young still and he still feels like a young guy still, so I'm sure it's hard for him not to be attracted to high school girls, but it's where he needs to draw the line. If he hasn't done anything I wouldn't go to the principle or anything, just give him a sign that you are uncomfortable with how "touchy feely" he's being. If it continues, then go up the ladder and let his boss know.

2007-04-02 12:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0 0

I just answered a similar case about this lol... Anyway, what he's doing is not considered sexual harassment, but its sure unappropriate! Never be alone with that teacher, always stay with your friends when you are around him. But you need to seriously tell this to the principle immediately. And he will get fired after people know about this. Dont be afraid and just report him! This guy is a perv and doesnt deserve to be a teacher.

2007-03-25 13:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0 0

ya its sexual harrament. i feel so uncomfortable around him. n when he touches my back n listens to us. n that day in the libary. he came in looked at us n walked out. n its kinda funny how we always c him in the hallway all the time. no matter where we go he is there. n we get blamed for alot of the stuff in the class. like wit jessica,

2007-03-25 14:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes. It is sexual harasment for any teacher, an authorty figure, to for any reason touch a student.

2007-03-25 13:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0 0

If you feel uncomfortable with the things that he's doing and the way that he makes you feel, than tell him so and if he stops then go on about yours and if doesn't file sexual harassment. if your to afraid to tell him face to face then talk to your school counselor and let them know what is going on and ask her to translate and transfer the info to him. Good luck.....I know there's lot of weirdos out there!

2007-04-02 13:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0 0

I would ask ur parents like dont tell them its happeing to u but ask them about it and see wat they say. and next time he touches u tell him that u dont like to be touched! O, & if he gets too close to u, I would just move away, cuz thats just really creepy! Teachers shouldnt do that, I think its probably against the law to touch students but I might be wrong. Anyways Good Luck, I hope he leaves u alone!

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2016-10-01 11:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

That is not sexual harassment yet. Tell him that it is getting close and to leave you alone. Unless you tell him to back off it will never be harassment! By not saying anything you are encouraging him!

2007-03-25 13:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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