I recently met a young man and he actively pursued me. I am in my 30's and he is in his 20s. He is handsome and outstanding in every way. I am a very attractive petite woman with an outstanding career. I fell for him but am very reluntant to accept a relationship due to the age difference. It is weird to think when I am 45 he is only 32. And another thing bothers me is: there are always young good looking guys pursuing me. Maybe just because I look like in 20s?
2007-03-25 13:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by NewIntheCity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can work, I have seen a few instances. But there are huge barriers.. Society generally disapproves of these relationships, so have to prepare to deal with that. Same with family.
Usually you will hear things like: You will be 65 when he is 47! Or robbing the cradle. But it is your business, do as you please, it is a free country, you and he are of age, so go for it.
2007-03-25 13:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's better that he is 12 years younger as opposed to being 12 years older!
2007-03-25 20:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so cuz my aunt is dating a dude that's like 34 and she's 52....i still dont see how that works out but it does.. 18 years apart...bigger gap
2007-03-25 20:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Pineapples aren't quiet Strawberries!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't matter at all - 12 years isn't that bad of an age difference when you think of people who get married in 20 year gaps. If you really like the guy go for it - you may just regret it if you don't.
2007-03-25 20:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are 14 years apart. My father is older though.
2007-03-25 20:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ hehe =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was older i would say it is ok but not in your case? He is to young and most of them young guys just want to get in your pants.
2007-03-25 20:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
age dosent matter as much as you get older. my parents...my mom is 53 while my dad is turning 41 this year....
no not a big deal. if you guys like one another and you think both of you are mature enough for the relationship, then go for it...
2007-03-25 20:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Emilie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with it, you're both adults. Older than my husband and married for many years,
2007-03-25 20:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-25 21:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl
2007-03-25 20:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋