k so here's the thing, all my life i thought i was straight, thought i'd grow up to marry sum tall dark handsome guy, then i fall in luv w/a straight girl, who ends up being preg, took me a bit to get over her but i did. well then i screwed up again and fell for another straight girl. this time i thought maybe being just friends would help me get over her BUT IT DIDNT!!! I still really love her more than anything and i hate the thought of screwing up our friendship cuz she means the world to me. I already decided i'm going to tell her this summer so she'll finally know the truth and i can move on and have a normal friendship w/her, and move on, and i know she wont abandon me cuz i already told her i'm in luv w/a girl (just not that she's the girl). so basically, i'm not asking anyone what i should do, but my god has anyone ever had this happen before? TWICE IN A ROW??!?! and u know, just for the record, long distance really doesnt help...god i miss her =(
2007-03-25 13:24:47 · 12 answers · asked by choux pastry heart 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry u discovered this and you mite have alot of feelings for her so don't ruin it tell her this summer but tell her u understand if u can only be friends and i understand u don't wanna just be friends u no with only half of her heart but she mite not like u more then a friend ive never answered a question like this i hope i helped and really sorry if i didn't
2007-03-25 13:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Saber 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm while depressed - Shawshank redemption/the golf green mile while offended - combat club/American history X/The soccer production unit while happy - The Blues Brothers - it is going to be a regulation that each physique has to work out this action picture a minimum of as quickly as.
2016-10-20 10:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by bassage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems almost more of an infatuation than love.
You have an extreme longing and passion towards a person who has no idea she is the apple of your eye.
Bring it up to her maybe she has had thoughts of girls as well and you'll never know until you talk about it.
Theres nothing wrong about being attracted to women, so don't beat yourself up about it or dwell on it longer than you have to.
2007-03-25 13:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by makospawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, being turn down is quite common. I have been covorting with girls and later get the I just like you like a friend card. So, it is the same situation because they don't like you they way you like them. So your experience is quite common for guys. What can I say, you can't dictate who you fall in love with.
2007-03-25 13:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this girl is REALLY strait, I don't think it will help either of you to tell her it's her you are interested in her. You can't change someone sexual preferences just by telling them you like them. But, if there is a chance she is gay/bi - go a head & tell her, just know that it may destroy your friendship.... Good luck.
2007-03-25 13:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man you are screwed up,just come out, admit to yourself you are gay(everybody else knows it) and then get on with it.
2007-03-25 13:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by naseldrip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go out to the where there is no straight girls. and meet people who are not straight. you'll have fun and be very comfortable.
2007-03-25 13:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ryah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some times if you truly love some one it is better just to let them go.any ways you are gay and she is straight, best of luck to you i hope it does not happen again.
2007-03-25 13:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kaylee Sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her maybe your not str8 ,and your bi ,but dont hide your feelings or anything,your brave though cuz you gonna tell here
2007-03-25 13:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
im so sorry gurlie...looks like you've got it rough...i hope all works out for you...i really do
2007-03-25 13:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋