Does weight matter to you! Like if you like her quality as friends and enjoy being with her, does weight matter to you?
2007-03-25 13:17:45 · 10 answers · asked by Baseball Lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like weight as in chubby, big boned, and muscular (not ugly muscles).
2007-03-25 13:27:57 · update #1
not really...weight dosent matter to me...if she has the qualities i like then i wouldnt care at all....
2007-03-25 13:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by ping pong deltoro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Here's how I see it. I'm not overweight myself and so I expect the woman I date to be the same. If nothing else, at least humor me before marriage. Not that I want fat after marriage or that you shouldn't take care of yourself, but I wouldn't disown my wife on the sole basis that she's fat.
I was reading a statistic on the elevator at work and it said 74% of American's are considered overweight. I am extremely concerned about having to live with someone who's overweight the rest of my life because it will be hard to compliment her with genuine conviction, which leads to many bad things. Your weight is controllable so it leads me to believe there's no excuse for it.
There are many men out there that look for FP or "fat potential" as they call it. "Look at the ankles," they say. You know, if I see warning signs like this I do tend to look elsewhere. Call it cold if you want, but women are equally as cold when they tell me they don't want a man with thinning hair, which is something completely out of my control.
For a man to have physical attraction toward a woman, visual attraction is more powerful than all the other senses combined. Read it and weep, but it's true.
2007-03-25 22:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Art Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. First of all most girl think they are fat, even if they are something like 100 pounds. Guys don't care much about the number, just the appearance. If she still looks good, weight does not matter.
2007-03-25 20:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a very tough call, it really depends on the person.
I know a guy who will always go for the big girls, but that's not for me.
You just have to hint at it and see how they react to being more than friends or if instead they just like you as a fun person but won't consider a serious relationship.
This seems almost like a younger person's question, so I suggest you wait until there are guys mature and interested enough in a real life partner to be with instead of wasting emotion on someone pathetic in it for a lay.
2007-03-25 20:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by makospawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Weight shouldn't matter, the way they treat you as a person should.
2007-03-25 20:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by omg. why they jeans so tiqht? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest: it does pose a factor but it really doesnt matter unless you are just plain ugly.
2007-03-25 20:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. to be physically attracted to her. to be friends --- couse not. in a relationship yuea cuz physicall attraction plays a part in the relationship.
2007-03-25 20:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Everett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weight shouldnt matter but some how it does.....if he or she like u enough its you and who you are that matters....
2007-03-25 20:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by flashmp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes REALLY fat i wouldn't consider her as my g/f but a little bit of weight doesn't bother me
2007-03-25 20:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't,but sum people are very superficial. sad huh?
2007-03-25 20:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋